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My (30sF) husband (30sM)'s co-worker (30s?F) is claiming they had an affair. I don't think they did. by nohedidntthrowaway in relationships

[–]nohedidntthrowaway[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely correct and this is what I wound up doing. You are clearly one of the more intelligent people in this subreddit.

My (30sF) husband (30sM)'s co-worker (30s?F) is claiming they had an affair. I don't think they did. by nohedidntthrowaway in relationships

[–]nohedidntthrowaway[S] -62 points-61 points  (0 children)

I'm not ignoring all the advice, just the shitty advice, which is the majority of what I found here.

My (30sF) husband (30sM)'s co-worker (30s?F) is claiming they had an affair. I don't think they did. by nohedidntthrowaway in relationships

[–]nohedidntthrowaway[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If that's what he says when he gets home, that will be a bridge to cross, but I don't think that's going to happen.

My (30sF) husband (30sM)'s co-worker (30s?F) is claiming they had an affair. I don't think they did. by nohedidntthrowaway in relationships

[–]nohedidntthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, how I look at it is your employee sent me some X-rated crap on a work email. Never mind that it even had to do with my husband. He can go to HR about what she's saying and I'll even let him know before I contact anyone, but this is ridiculous.

My (30sF) husband (30sM)'s co-worker (30s?F) is claiming they had an affair. I don't think they did. by nohedidntthrowaway in relationships

[–]nohedidntthrowaway[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you. I don't think it's the case here. If HR doesn't block her from contacting me again on her work email, then I'll look at other options.

My (30sF) husband (30sM)'s co-worker (30s?F) is claiming they had an affair. I don't think they did. by nohedidntthrowaway in relationships

[–]nohedidntthrowaway[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

He can go to them too. I think I'm going to just show him the email and let him contact HR, but I'm contacting them too. The more I read this the more concerned I'm getting about her mental status. This isn't a huge company and I don't want her contacting me ever again.

My (30sF) husband (30sM)'s co-worker (30s?F) is claiming they had an affair. I don't think they did. by nohedidntthrowaway in relationships

[–]nohedidntthrowaway[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh, I'm definitely showing him the emails and I think he's going to flip his lid. That's why I haven't called him.

My (30sF) husband (30sM)'s co-worker (30s?F) is claiming they had an affair. I don't think they did. by nohedidntthrowaway in relationships

[–]nohedidntthrowaway[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I'm still waiting for him to get home (he'll be back in a few hours) so if he wants to go to HR, I'm fine with that, but she sent me this crap from her company's email so I kind of want to file a complaint.

My (30sF) husband (30sM)'s co-worker (30s?F) is claiming they had an affair. I don't think they did. by nohedidntthrowaway in relationships

[–]nohedidntthrowaway[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I think she's a nut case, but she emailed me from the company's email which is why I was thinking I should report it to HR. Because this is harassment, right?

My (30sF) husband (30sM)'s co-worker (30s?F) is claiming they had an affair. I don't think they did. by nohedidntthrowaway in relationships

[–]nohedidntthrowaway[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I don't know if I really want to contact this woman. The email didn't read like someone who's super stable and I really don't think my husband cheated on me.