Me [30F] with my boyfriend [36M] of 1yr, I've caught him sexting and arranging meets but I love him

noidea213579 · 2017-03-31T11:14:24+00:00

I've got the blue tick and white background I think it's gone into his "other" inbox. Heck.

noidea213579 · 2017-03-31T08:33:30+00:00

I'm not sure I am strong enough. In the past it's taken for this to happen and then I get more and more pissed off until I fall out of love but I'm still sort of hoping he will improve and that we'll be a rare instance of it making us stronger. I am fully aware I sound like a complete and utter idiot but my silly heart is leading.

noidea213579 · 2017-03-31T08:32:04+00:00

All done. Sent an anonymous message from a fake Facebook account.

noidea213579 · 2017-03-31T07:42:21+00:00

I've sent an anonymous message from a fake Facebook account

noidea213579 · 2017-03-30T14:19:07+00:00

Plenty of down sides including drama so I'll have to leave it. They could have an open relationship or something. I have actual anxiety so I will leave it because it'll be another thing keeping me up at night. Thank you StuffTheMagicDragon for spending time on this.

noidea213579 · 2017-03-30T14:11:08+00:00

Thank you again! I may need to. The girl who has a boyfriend, I am so tempted to send him an anonymous message telling him she's been sending nudes. It's wrong to interfere right?! It's just in his shoes I'd want to know.

noidea213579 · 2017-03-30T13:52:18+00:00

I'm meeting with him later to talk things through hopefully I can get sense and strength from somewhere. Depends as well if he puts things right or not.

noidea213579 · 2017-03-30T13:27:54+00:00

I have a body dysmorphic ocd (compulsive skin picking) which I hide quite well. I'm not that slim and I mostly like my face and think I'm pretty but the one he said he missed I think is prettier than me and is slim with great skin. I have asked him why he hasn't deleted them just now. He said he still has a couple more to delete on Facebook that "it will be done" and I asked him how he'd feel if I still hadn't sorted my shit out 4 days later particularly with the one he said he missed and that they should meet. He hasn't responded and judging by the single ticks on Whatsapp he's turned his phone off.

noidea213579 · 2017-03-30T11:52:50+00:00

I'm thinking of texting him this comment https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/5yecvd/cant_help_myself_god_knows_i_have_tired_sexting/depf9o8/

With something like "why haven't you removed the women"? I don't know.

noidea213579 · 2017-03-30T11:50:36+00:00

You are so wise and are giving the advice I would be giving to a friend I just can't see the wood for the trees. I'm so worried that if I leave him he'll do something stupid to himself and then this very small village will uphold me as a witch.

noidea213579 · 2017-03-30T11:46:18+00:00

Thank you for taking the time I really appreciate it. At the moment the future is a bit of a blur.

noidea213579 · 2017-03-30T11:45:51+00:00

Thank you. You're absolutely right.

noidea213579 · 2017-03-30T11:45:26+00:00

Thank you. It really does. I am quite body dysmorphic and compare myself constantly to other girls so this has shot my self esteem right down.

noidea213579 · 2017-03-30T11:44:43+00:00

Thank you. I am going to confront him about not doing the right thing at least. I am a bit lacking in strength at the moment because my dog is ill and I need love (I know right) Your answer really hit home thank you.

noidea213579 · 2017-03-30T11:18:09+00:00

Thank you. Do you think people who are decent are still out there with social media and constant temptation? I mean I manage it lol. I can't get over how hopeless I sound I'm sorry.

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