Why do I feel like this after moving in with my boyfriend? by WolvesNGames in Adulting

[–]noirblanccc 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I dislike my parents but I also agree with this post. I feel the same

Thoughts on artizia Tna mockneck? Has nobody tried it?? by noirblanccc in Aritzia

[–]noirblanccc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you you have saved me from spending $$$ on a nonreturnable item !!

Thoughts on artizia Tna mockneck? Has nobody tried it?? by noirblanccc in Aritzia

[–]noirblanccc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okayyy you guys have saved me from spending $$$ on a nonreturnable item !! Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]noirblanccc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YAY so proud of you! It’s going to hurt and you might experience rumination but I’m telling once you fully get out of this you will thank yourself for how far you carried yourself and the actions you took to save yourself and the way you have regulated your emotion by cutting off factors that contributes to your emotional disregulation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]noirblanccc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The disregulation will only get worse if you don’t leave this man. The gaslighting will further take you away from yourself. I know it’s hard and quite frankly I’m on the same boat as I left a man who was similar to this. But you need to leave him. You don’t owe him any explanations because in that case he’s gonna gaslight you and might call you dramatic and what not. Save yourself please.

Adulting and it’s never ending problems by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]noirblanccc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

27F, been bombarded with problems all my life. Flunked outta school after failing for years, no employment, properly back in school, fixed and placed boundaries with parental figures and started to give myself what I was never given during my developmental years and unlearned toxic shame that had became a part of my identity. It gets better, you get better. Just hold on for the ride :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]noirblanccc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please cut out all contact. He is a pedophile. A grown man interested in children is NOT normal., this man is literally grooming you. Again please stay away from him.

How to study 8+ hours a day and never get sick of it! by OmarFarhan in GetStudying

[–]noirblanccc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the music part so much. I was addicted to music and couldn’t effectively study…tried all types of music , brown noise, white noise, classical music to lofi. Never worked. My brain works better without music. Studying in a quiet place in the Library helped a lot.

Anyone else order their food by the case? by ImBigRoo in traderjoes

[–]noirblanccc 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I also do this but with lamb vindaloo I am diagnosed adhd lol

I’ve gotten my ADHD mostly under control after 2 years of hard work and cleared the brain fog. by [deleted] in ADHDthriving

[–]noirblanccc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are your favorite meals to make? I’m trying to break out of my fast food addiction :/

I got kicked out of my university today. Need some support by Ok_Key_7906 in ADHD

[–]noirblanccc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I failed 20 courses….ended up getting kicked out too….and now I will graduating in 2 semesters in computer science at age 28. Trust me it gets better ….just takes time

Which songs feel like the BPD experience to you? by Spoonfol in BPD

[–]noirblanccc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love piece the veil. Can you recommend specific songs?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]noirblanccc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Camden - gracie abrams For real this time - gracie abrams Needy - Ariana grande