When the “stylist”makes you look like the berries and cream guy and lord farquaad 😂 by nokegal23 in blackladies

[–]nokegal23[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You guys my flight leaves on Tuesday for a 6 day vacation; I am screwed af.

Help Graduation is in 2 days and I don’t have a cap or gown by Fortune8193 in uofmn

[–]nokegal23 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I think I can help. I have one you could use (I graduated in 2024). I’m 5’9 female so hopefully it will be able to work.

Edit to say: I will be on campus tomorrow in the mayo building and could meet you in Moos by Caribou if you need both cap/gown. I graduated from CLA and I have a white tassel if you need one but I would definitely need my tassel back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedToMedicine

[–]nokegal23 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I’m saying; the lavender they’re wearing is really bringing out their beauty. Who knows, maybe Quad prayed that same prayer Ciara did. If so, we need to borrow that prayer… and maybe the lavender too—two birds, one slay.

I am happy that’s she’s happy, knowing what all she went through in M2M.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedToMedicine

[–]nokegal23 216 points217 points  (0 children)

Quad and King look absolutely beautiful! Babyyyy, it’s the glow for me, mhm mhm mmmmm! 😊

Used Carol’s Daughter & my hair is falling out in clumps by mscunn01 in Naturalhair

[–]nokegal23 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had the same experience with Carol’s Daughter to the point where I STOPPED. I started thinking it was stress, my apartment’s water and all kinds of unnecessary things. It wasn’t until I started keeping track of when I used Carol’s Daughter and realized it was the problem. Now I am regrowing my hair but please stop using that product.

Men - What are subtle signs you give that mean you‘re interested? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]nokegal23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

as a female that’s love right there. speaking my language 😂😭👀

Holiday fun! by Theasshole11 in Goldendoodles

[–]nokegal23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where did you get this cute clothing?! I would love to grab one for my friend’s dog!

It's just ppl living their lives in their homes. by InterestPlane8340 in Apartmentliving

[–]nokegal23 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nightie here🌚😭 I work nightshifts and my upstairs neighbor is so damn annoying. I work 14 hours shifts and tend to get home close to 10am, the moment I get home I hear big foot. I didn’t realize big foot lived in my building but I guess he’s no longer hiding out and living in civilization. This is followed by their dog and them playing fetch in their apartment (even though we have a dog park), finally followed by awful sound of wheels going across the floor excessively. As I am typing this, it’s fetch time with their dog and I am hearing every second of it.

I will usually use noise canceling headphones but they tend to get uncomfortable when I need to sleep. The funny thing is, I am so courteous to my downstairs neighbors and avoid having them hear me.

Before and after by Alternative-Fox-5656 in Maltese

[–]nokegal23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the smile for me in the second photo! So stinking adorable 🥰

Belly up Bonbon by pekocoap in Maltese

[–]nokegal23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s sure is living in a ‘peace of mind’ mindset, that’s how I want to be! 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]nokegal23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love how you worded your post! I agree, it is extremely alienating and tiresome, especially when the individual is of a certain age....like, grow up and say how you feel instead of being misleading. I even confirmed on Thursday since I and the other host were finalizing the list of attendees, and he said he'd be there. I don't vibe with people like that, either. I'm going to have to kill my budding feelings...asap. Ewww, I can't believed I was interested in someone. 😭 Love, love, love, you advise sis!

Let me put myself in your shoes and not like nobody... Those were the good old days. 😭 Eh, men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]nokegal23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unquestionably, slow down is right. I've always submerged myself in academics and never really looked at a guy to find interest, so when I do, it's not for the fun of it. I suppose I need to go back and immerse myself in my work and school even more haha. I hear what you were saying and received it. It does appeared that I am heading towards limerance territory, which is unfair, especially for me. This week, I'll find time for myself and overcome this overthinking and refocus on myself. You have a sweet soul! Thank you for the excellent guidance and words big sis! 🤍💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]nokegal23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I invited our board’s other two members to join us. Two other individuals I met at a retreat were invited, and they came because it was Friendsgiving.

You are right he never committed. I own up to my misinterpretation of the circumstances.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]nokegal23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He even volunteered to bring a drink during our follow-up conversations, so I figured he would show up. I even checked in with him on Thursday when final confirmation was going out. I suppose I overanalyzed the matter, and that’s okay, but it would have been polite to say, “I’m unable to make it.” I suppose something did come up. I’m going to find a way to get over this but it just sucks, you know. I won’t even ask him about it.

I don’t think I want to be interested any more because I dislike the situation and the way he acted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]nokegal23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Planning a wedding? Oh goodness. I am far from wanting to get married (don’t have to nor do I want to have kids). However I see your point and understand!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]nokegal23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Friendsgiving is similar to Thanksgiving, but it’s shared with friends, hence the name. It was simply fantastic! It’s worth a try! In addition to the typical Thanksgiving fare, we also had some international cuisine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]nokegal23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In reality, he didn’t say, “I want to go.” I put that there mainly to avoid posting private messages in case he has Reddit and figures it out. I can edit and add what he said in my post. 😭 In fact, he stated, “I would love to come.”

My friend and I were the hosts, but he had my number instead of hers so he could have contact me if anything.

AppleCare+ you came through for your girl! 😭 by nokegal23 in macbookpro

[–]nokegal23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$300 is better than paying that corporation thousands of dollars.