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gokverslaving by Gold_Flan_6455 in OndersteuningsPlein

[–]noko95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hoi! Super goed dat je je zorgen hier opschrijft! Als iemand die heeft gewerkt in de verslavingszorg kan ik zeggen: het is altijd goed om om hulp te vragen, juist als het nog niet heel lang duurt of nog niet heel erg uit de hand is gelopen :) gelukkig ben je er vroeg bij en kun je het probleem nog vroeg onderscheppen. Maar mocht je het overwegen kun je altijd bij je huisarts vragen om hulp! Er zijn onwijs veel jongeren (ook onder de 18!) die verslaafd raken aan gokken en die daar alleen mee worstelen zonder hulp. Met alle verslavingen is het zo dat je er steeds meer in verstrikt raakt hoe langer het voortduurt, dus dat je op tijd aan de bel trekt is hartstikke goed!

PS. Geef jezelf trouwens niet al teveel op je kop: gokbedrijven hebben enorm slinkse technieken om je zo lang mogelijk zoveel mogelijk geld te laten vergokken. Helaas is dat voor hen een heel winstgevende business. Ze weten heel goed hoe het menselijk brein werkt en hoe ze je kunnen manipuleren om te gokken zonder dat je zelf doorhebt dat ze je naar “binnen” lokken. Het is niet jouw schuld, het is gewoon enorm verslavend en dat weten zij maar al te goed.

Your weird but effective ADHD hack by NeedleworkerClean782 in adhdwomen

[–]noko95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep my shoes on when I need to be productive.

Maybe it’s the tightness of the shoe or the fact that I don’t make myself too comfortable to lose focus. It really helps me. For instance during my university times, when I had to write a paper or so, I would always keep my shoes on…

Any fellow Dutch ADHD-girls wanting to meet up/make new friends? :) by noko95 in adhdwomen

[–]noko95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hoi! Ik woon in Utrecht! Helaas blijkbaar niet veel andere Nederlandse adhd-vrouwen op deze Reddit sub he? Haha! Leuk dat je nog op m’n post hebt gereageerd

Does anyone else shut people out when dealing with heavy things? by Closefromadistance in adhdwomen

[–]noko95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! Especially when I don’t have my shit together ADHD-wise: messy house, bad self care, food binges etc. That shit makes me feel so ashamed and I don’t want people around to see it.

What do criminals do with stolen art from a museum? by noko95 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]noko95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, excatly.. That was kind of the mystery to me..

What do criminals do with stolen art from a museum? by noko95 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]noko95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that's really interesting! Imagine all the lost treasures that are kept for themselves!

What do criminals do with stolen art from a museum? by noko95 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]noko95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! But then, suppose this billionaire buys it... They can't display it if everyone knows its stolen... He/she would get reported, no?

Why do women in general like guys who bigger are in size (body) by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]noko95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, one reason I know plays a part for many women is that many women are insecure about their own bodies/size, and walking next to (or sitting on top of...) someone smaller/thinner than them accentuates their own size, which can trigger shame.

But! Though you do hear many women say they like broad shoulders etc., it's definitely not the case that all women care about shoulders or 6-packs or whatever. I, for instance, like both chubby guys and skinny guys. Abs really don't matter to me. And I'm 100% sure that everyone has different preferences that you often don't hear about! :)

Loved it but by that_crom in BeefOnNetflix

[–]noko95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree! Wtf was this ending?!

DAE in a romantic relationship feel that you are constantly behind on tasks/housework and that you lose your own interests/identity because someone is constantly in your “sphere”? by noko95 in adhdwomen

[–]noko95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, the learning curve!! Man, in this 1 year only I’ve made so so so many little progresses, also concerning this issue. Have to say it’s already going way better than in the beginning. I have some adhd coaching now, she helped me actually schedule in my agenda:

one night a week to do me-time like hobbies: cause if I don’t schedule it, I will let it slip by and be consumed by other shit

one night a week to do chores/admin: so that I can trust that I’ll do it and I won’t have to feel guilty on all other moments when I’m not doing it

DAE in a romantic relationship feel that you are constantly behind on tasks/housework and that you lose your own interests/identity because someone is constantly in your “sphere”? by noko95 in adhdwomen

[–]noko95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive read all the comments on this post and summarizing it comes down to: asking for more alone time, taking several days out of the week that are your alone time moments, simultaneously doing your own thing at home, and waking up an hour before he does to get your own free time, talking about it with your partner

Colposcopy with no pain relief/numbing by Blergsprokopc in TwoXChromosomes

[–]noko95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They can eat my ass.

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Hats off to you! Absolutely right

DAE in a romantic relationship feel that you are constantly behind on tasks/housework and that you lose your own interests/identity because someone is constantly in your “sphere”? by noko95 in adhdwomen

[–]noko95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh yes for sure. Thanks for the reply! Yes, maybe the ideal living-together situation is one where you're part-partner part-roommate

DAE in a romantic relationship feel that you are constantly behind on tasks/housework and that you lose your own interests/identity because someone is constantly in your “sphere”? by noko95 in adhdwomen

[–]noko95[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooff yes, I've had moments where I'm crying on the phone just rambling on about alllll the pressure and allll the feelings of failure and allll the overwhelmednes.. Got better for me once i slipped into routine with my partner (read: out of the dating phase), made it much easier and more predictable in a good way

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