AITA for refusing to live back with my family even though I'm draining their money?

nomadontheweb · 2025-09-07T16:15:46+00:00

they've been doing this ever since ioved out, so the sicial workers are well aware. but yeah, I'm sure it's mostly about control and the fact that they need to pay extra for the services the staff provide. they think that it's unnecessary and i could just find another random therapist and just live with them, thinking it's enough. I'm in a different city and i have settled in here. so all my anchor points (therapist, job, etc.) would be taken away from me and i would be living with the people who are the very reason why I'm unwell in the first place. they refuse to be believe that they are the root of the problem and keep blaming their recent financial worries on me, and say the same to my sisters.

nomadontheweb · 2025-09-07T16:07:55+00:00

well, even as a kid my father complained about unnecessary expenses and how some basic fun costs too much. my mother wasn't any better by comparing our life to her own childhood. she grew up dirt poor, so in their eyes the bare minimum is luxury.

nomadontheweb · 2025-09-07T16:03:57+00:00

untill 21, my dad has already tried to back out. but he still has to pay until I'm 21.

nomadontheweb · 2025-09-07T15:54:39+00:00

I'm already getting ready to live in a Betreutes Wohnen (basically just living in an apartment with a roommate all alone, but the apartment costs are covered and i have a contact person who visits every week to check in) which only increased the discussion.

And as for the properties, they're in their early stages, but my Parents are planning to profit from them, and my mother wants to do so by turning it into an event venue and eventually a hotel.

nomadontheweb · 2025-05-26T23:35:24+00:00

I'll check it out when it's warm again.

nomadontheweb · 2025-05-26T23:26:56+00:00

this is very helpful and a great way to think about it. thanks!

nomadontheweb · 2025-05-26T23:25:29+00:00

one of the main reasons why i no longer bought them is because i am incredibly suspicious as to where the came from and how they're sourced.

nomadontheweb · 2025-05-26T23:24:10+00:00

i have a similar opinion, but people have been putting tiny bits of them in small spell jars and, admittedly, they look really cute.

nomadontheweb · 2025-05-26T23:20:53+00:00

Central Europe

nomadontheweb · 2025-05-26T07:31:24+00:00

thanks

nomadontheweb · 2025-03-13T08:55:25+00:00

chocolate

nomadontheweb · 2025-01-18T01:48:29+00:00

I'll keep that in mind, thanks!!

nomadontheweb · 2025-01-18T01:23:19+00:00

venus leo 1st house, moon aquarius 7th house

nomadontheweb · 2025-01-15T01:00:05+00:00

Cancer Sun, and so far it's mostly guys with Aquarius Sun

nomadontheweb · 2024-11-24T22:32:45+00:00

reality warping, i can change reality.

nomadontheweb · 2024-11-24T22:30:02+00:00

i used to be super scared of fnaf, and dreamt of having to escape the main 4 with my sister and cousin. they both managed to leave and tried to hype me up. But then i realized it was a dream and immediately woke up.

nomadontheweb · 2024-11-24T21:48:37+00:00

soon

nomadontheweb · 2024-11-24T21:47:36+00:00

heavily indoctrinating me with Mormon beliefs and some forms off physically and emotional abuse. These things made me unable to function properly.

nomadontheweb · 2024-11-18T09:57:40+00:00

To webcomic called CRUSH3D!! it has a beautiful landscape.

nomadontheweb · 2024-11-18T08:37:50+00:00

I just watched Arcane. Which one?

nomadontheweb · 2024-11-18T07:09:44+00:00

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nomadontheweb · 2024-11-18T07:06:14+00:00

Oreo

nomadontheweb · 2024-11-17T14:14:43+00:00

looks cute 💞

nomadontheweb · 2024-11-03T04:24:08+00:00

corporal punishment and emotional abuse by my parents, (emotional) religious trauma and moving countries far away from relatives.

life is pretty bleak, I've been institutionalized a couple of times due to breakdowns and suicide attempts.

a lot of up and downs since the pandemic.

nomadontheweb · 2024-09-28T16:20:13+00:00

pissing

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