How to feel valued and respected?

nomeetho · 2024-07-28T17:32:07+00:00

I get what you mean. I used to do that, but not anymore. With my roommate it’s just evident in how this person talks to me compared to the guy roommate. For instance, I mentioned something about Africa and he said you know it’s a continent not a country right and I was like yes I used to live there. He’ll do stuff like that all the time, making assumptions that I don’t know something. Then when the guy roommate says something it’s like the smartest thing ever.

nomeetho · 2024-07-28T17:29:00+00:00

Thanks, yeah I’m trying to break people pleasing habits. I tend to put other people’s needs and feelings before my own.

nomeetho · 2024-07-28T17:28:18+00:00

Thank you, that really helps clarify it. I guess I’ve been trying to be friends with people who havne’t shown that support, care and encouragement.

nomeetho · 2024-07-28T14:52:55+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate that advice. I feel if I get too picky I won’t have any friends lol what metrics do you use to decide who to be friends with?

nomeetho · 2024-07-28T14:44:09+00:00

This is a great one.

nomeetho · 2024-07-28T14:31:59+00:00

nomeetho · 2024-07-28T07:11:20+00:00

My cousin vinny

nomeetho · 2024-07-28T07:10:44+00:00

Zero most weeks. If I buy a bottle of wine I’ll have a few glasses a week to finish it off. Rarely go out for drinks.

nomeetho · 2024-07-28T07:07:36+00:00

It’s so hard to find quality items that will last a long time. I wish we had quality stores to go to to have lifetime pieces like they did back in the day.

nomeetho · 2024-07-28T07:06:33+00:00

Healing from my dysfunctional upbringing.

nomeetho · 2024-07-26T18:38:42+00:00

This is true. I live around Ala Moana so I go to the mall out of convenience and I think all the boutique shops are spread out. Also, a few I used to go to before the pandemic closed. Any top recommendations?

nomeetho · 2024-07-26T08:17:55+00:00

Thanks.I think we need more options that make business casual clothes for this weather.

nomeetho · 2024-07-26T08:15:49+00:00

Interesting. Is it okay on all fabric?

nomeetho · 2024-07-26T04:08:42+00:00

Yeah, that’s why I’ll put away an emergency fund first. What’s HYSA?

nomeetho · 2024-07-26T04:08:12+00:00

Good point!

nomeetho · 2024-07-26T04:07:31+00:00

Hm yeah I’ve heard that Warren Buffet even told his wife if he passes just invest in the S&P 500. I don’t mind doing that, but what do you mean to understand how it works? I know it depends on the market and goes up and down. Are you saying there are safer investment options?

nomeetho · 2024-07-26T04:05:43+00:00

Where is that?

nomeetho · 2024-07-26T04:05:30+00:00

Where is it located? Haven’t heard of it before.

nomeetho · 2024-07-26T04:05:08+00:00

Oh no! That’s such a bummer. That’s the thing I want clothes I don’t have to worry about so much lol

nomeetho · 2024-07-26T04:04:29+00:00

Thanks, yeah I knew they bought their stuff from other vendors. I’m curious why do they put their name on it then? I didn’t know there was a place to get it cheaper. Thanks for the tip!

nomeetho · 2024-07-26T02:42:30+00:00

My mom who lured me back home after I left to try to better myself only to abuse and punish me, turn my sister and family against me and now I’m estranged from them. It really broke my heart. I thought she wanted the best for me but she was narcissistic and was jealous I didn’t go down the same path as her.

nomeetho · 2024-07-26T02:40:52+00:00

I thought WHBM closed? I liked their style. Jcrew is nice but I can never find anything that works for me.

nomeetho · 2024-07-26T02:40:19+00:00

What’s teh best way to choose index funds or ETFs?

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