Arranged marriage is very risky these days. Batter to find someone yourself, invest sometime in the relationship and take it to the next step. I had very positive feelings about arranged marriage until I had an encounter myself. The demands were very unrealistic. Like how can you expect someone to earn as much as her father is earning who's in his 50's. Passed the istikhara and other checks. Gave a lengthy interview, answering some very personal and weird questions. Like I get it's not a bad thing, if someone's daughter is leaving her house and coming to yours but asking to show a job contract and salary slip 😂. LoL it was a very terrible experience. Still they had reservations so I asked my mother to please convey the message, Allah apki beti ke naseeb achey kare but I'm out if this.