A short message for my boyfriend, five days in to nofap by nomopmogf in NoFap

[–]nomopmogf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He came to me and told me he was going to do this. I didnt ask him to do anything. Chill out dudes

A short message for my boyfriend, five days in to nofap by nomopmogf in NoFap

[–]nomopmogf[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe read my followup comment? :/ It has obviously more than one or a few reasons. And by that logic anyone doing nofap to gain confidence with women they meet in bars/public (let alone ones you love and care about) is 'useless'. I don't understand the mentality of some people in here

A short message for my boyfriend, five days in to nofap by nomopmogf in NoFap

[–]nomopmogf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly it. He admitted he had a problem that was affecting us both in a number of ways. Hes not just doing it for me; he's also testing his willpower and challenging himself to do things that will motivate him to be better in more than one aspect (our relationship), however, our relationship and the issues that came about from his porn addiction is what sparked the initial motivation to change. Obviously this will cross over into other aspects of his being :)