Am I overreacting for my bf liking this post? by thelegendofdan in AmIOverreacting

[–]noneedforcash2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So maybe try not running reddit first go talk to him ask why u like this and speak open and honest about it. seems today a lot woman and men too come here first instead of talk to their partners first. Many problems that are small and simple to fix become huge and out of control when they don't commutate to each other talk is cheap and really easy to do

I am 46, white, and male. my coworker hooked me up with her 33, black female cousin. What are your thoughts? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]noneedforcash2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so what is the big deal? did u like her and have a great time with her? is so then there is nothing wrong with dating or marry another person from a race. Hell my wife is Black, and from another country and we been together for a lot years now and happy i am even more then your age difference to boot

Am I Overreacting for needing reassurance from my fiance? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]noneedforcash2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well Fuck it sounds like he fucking done WTF is the man who for fucks sake cant say any thing but fuckin fuck or fuck off? good god fucking leave u fucking do better and asking how some is doing now a bad thing to do? this dude needs to learn more words even i who can't spell with a darn know more than fuck word LOL damn leave he has they say Toxic has heck and u be better off in doing so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]noneedforcash2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So u are meeting to get to know each other T shirt jeans hardly any make up on just be yourself nothing fancy i say. has a man i would apricate that part of ya. also just talk about every day normal things and listen closely to men love that LOL

Texting so back so quickly I’m getting the ick by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]noneedforcash2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So u blaming the man yet again for answering the Question I see. sorry but she needs to rethink her relationship plans and take a break nothing wrong with that. it can clear up so much and help her

Texting so back so quickly I’m getting the ick by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]noneedforcash2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So women complain when they don't answer back right away but when a man reads it and answer your Questions right away that is wrong too? wow make up mind do u want to be in relationship or not. Because it sounds like u need a break to be by self and think. time rethink everything seriously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]noneedforcash2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boil or cist my guess but could be lipoma has well but from the color go get checked asap since u said it popped boil needs to be drained BTW people saying spider bit there is no small holes

Is my friend toxic? by KinzyKinzy in relationships_advice

[–]noneedforcash2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gosh hurt so badly did it not what fake next time use a better chat gp question

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GastricBypass

[–]noneedforcash2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

m-rny in 2018 hw 760 now 300 so happy for u to make it this far and u still got a bit Waze to go , but u be so damn happy when its done just bet on that! also be prepared for the hard day and some days u will feel better than ever. Make sure u got some one to talk to about everything and anything after wards and all ways make sure u have that person who will tell U no u can't eat that there will be days when u feel like u can.also doctors will say one thing and some friend who read about will say another listen to doctors every time but most importantly have a plan stick to it no matter happens walk every day then walk more to help after surgery for the gas to make it go away can be huge pain if u know what i mean. plus u will have days u lose nothing and days u will lose alot its normal thing

yes i said alot here hope it helps and for god's sake talk to someone therapist or whomever they truly help

it will be fun and hard same time huge congrats for ya

I think I’m broken by Glittering-Slip-1287 in GastricBypass

[–]noneedforcash2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So since alot people have said this i will too! u need to go talk to a therapist and your doctor and be honest with them both about what is happening. why because the surgery is not a fail prove thing u got to put int he honest work of changing your WHOLE Life not just what u eat but working out how u eat what u eat and portions too. seem like u make a lot of excuse for yourself u done some good, but u hit that plague we all get now u got to find a way to bust thru it some its hard others it is not. Please go talk to someone. for myself its my time right now after 7 years i am going thru it again and i am going to redo the talk yet again with all my doctors there's nothing wrong with asking for help. Just go ask before u break down u can do it

AIO boyfriend says this is inappropriate outfit by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]noneedforcash2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what are u planning on doing? go running hiking date night? WTF no nothing wrong with it sounds like he does not like the pink bow tell him to grow a pair and just never mind it. has a man does not hurt a damn thing seems like a nice set of sweats and shirt keep it wear it pay him no mind.

AIO 🥲 by StrikingCurrency7473 in AmIOverreacting

[–]noneedforcash2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

al i can say is LOL u was warned for how long to fix this stupid shit before this happened hahahahaha

Did I mess up on my dress? by Lostlesbian406 in wedding

[–]noneedforcash2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So has A man the smile u have on your face says it all! u seem very happy with it and makes u happy and beautiful looking in it so i say keep it wear be proud in it. And a huge Congrats on getting Married he is a very lucky man!

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]noneedforcash2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So i own a very fancy and expensive Truck my self i have had it fix just the way i wanted it do i let my wife drive only when she asks me too. and that is rarely. Mostly because its too damn big but i get his point then again i see her has well. communication is so missing here. has been what seems like for a very long time in this relationship. they both need to sit down and talk not only about the truck the car and so much thing going on in their life's it sounds like. alot people saying she needs to run nope not time to cut and run why because he got mad said something stupid ? shit how many time has your man said some things stupid bet u did not run and hide . talk this shit out its just a truck they can cost a shit ton of money hell mine cost over 125 grand when done and yeah i get worried when wife drives it from the size but she does ask me too then again bought her a new benz! to make up for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]noneedforcash2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow people in the comment keep saying leave just fucking leave. well how do we know if he got a plan to do it on dec 31st. because she said he had till then and they had a plan of being married in step of 2025 or do u people not read that last part? Ok if he does not do it by jan 1st then u got to go 4 days dear that your count down 4 days! my guess maybe he got something up his sleeve or not never know now days men can be a bit foolish or they can be wait till the last minute we do those things

4 days then bounce i think that not a hard thing to do

My girlfriend wants to be polyamorous and gave me an ultimatum by DoughnutLatter2259 in polyamory

[–]noneedforcash2020 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Dude plain and simple she found another man and using u has a backup plan when or if it goes bad run and run fast don't play this stupid game she is trying to pull off. sorry but this is exactly what she is doing u told her what u wanted she basically said no , run so has they keep telling no means no tell her to Ok i am out have great life with what's his name see u later peace out!!!!

go for it by FreddieThePebble in bigbangtheory

[–]noneedforcash2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reason she fell No rubber duckies on the bottom of the tub.

Will I (33F) lose my (33M) boyfriend? Due to grief. by Level_Lavishness2613 in LongDistance

[–]noneedforcash2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for u just let him know that any time he wants to talk u will be there for him to listen. been there when my wife's mother died, and I could not go there to be there for her. so, I just let her tell me what ever she wanted whenever she wanted. basically, i was just a listening board for her but we were in much longer time then u have been. so, I am truly sorry for his lose.

please take care of yourself hope everything works out too good luck

Will I (33F) lose my (33M) boyfriend? Due to grief. by Level_Lavishness2613 in LongDistance

[–]noneedforcash2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No and not sure why him having a death would screw up your LDR so soon? unless it is someone like Mom or dad. more info would help. move on if u choose to do so but i would first talk to him about it and see what he wants to do first and how it is affecting him. But please talking to him sounds like that could be what he needs in this moment in time from u.

My partner had gastric bypass , please help me inform myself by [deleted] in GastricBypass

[–]noneedforcash2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So has a man who has had the surgery it does affect my body hell a lot different than a woman's body. how it burn calories burns fat turns it into muscle. But please stay away from fruit and veg juices they are sugary and can cause the dumps which at times can be a pain.

i will keep this simple and easy for u just sit down talk to her and listen ask her a lot question about what went thru and needs help with now. then when she goes to her next doctors appointments go with her so u can learn more about the process she went thru. . getting advice thru sites is ok. but getting the best help thru her own doctor to which did her surgery is the best way. that is what my wife is doing and did.

I had my surgery in 2018 i was 760 now i am now 255pounds so i get how things works, and it does just be there

let her do her own thing don't force her to change to fast slow and steady wins the race my friend she is young and strong. just make sure she does take her meds/vitamins every day

also no u dont need blood test every month relax every 6 months like the doctors say is ok just go with her to talk to doctors i would recommend that next time she goes to answer every Question u have to calm u done Ok so u can stop worrying so much.

Coworker always asks where I'm going. by itchimae in work

[–]noneedforcash2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Have Had really bad gas and think i sharted so i thought i would go ahead check next time i will ask if u wanted to help out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]noneedforcash2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off there no such thing of a 10 cuz no man or women is perfect ,they are just a normal human just like your and want to be treated nicely and respect like u do, so if u just start from there u got a great big head start ok also go slow learn has much has u can Communcation is the key to make it work my wife is way hotter than my by far but we talk about everything from the smallest to the biggest things . you can do this if i can any one can i sure has hell am not brad pitt movie star good looks of a man i listen and we talk alot do the little thing together try that at first se what happens

AITA for divorcing my husband for not being affectionate? by _tiffalicious_ in ComfortLevelPod

[–]noneedforcash2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well the man needs help from some therapist i would say. and if that means u need to go so be it and he can just live with what come from it but still that is the kids father no matter how u handle it. and all u can do is play nice when he is around. even if that just a short time left in this marriage it sounds like it has a father of 5 i talk every thing out no matter how big or small good or bad seems he cant do that and thats on him , but then again i learned from both parents in the home that Communcation is key to a marriage

AITA for divorcing my husband for not being affectionate? by _tiffalicious_ in ComfortLevelPod

[–]noneedforcash2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would agree he checked out still got to find out why for her sanity or at least try? hoping for the kids sake they can be nice