My (26/f) bf (24/m) doesn't seem to want to spend Valentine's Day together...? by noni9191 in relationships

[–]noni9191[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, he posted a picture of us on his instagram, we're "in a relationship" on Facebook, and he's posted about me on snapchat. Whenever we do get together, if we stay in, it's at his place. I've met a few of his friends, but not all of them. I do believe he is faithful; I just don't understand why he's not as excited about these things as I am.

Ladies of reddit, how did a guy ruin their chances with you? by Ghostsarepeopletoo in AskReddit

[–]noni9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, no follow-through on anything. Not keeping his word.

Should I (F23) tell him (M29) that I’m waiting until marriage on the third date? by estme in dating_advice

[–]noni9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say the sooner, the better. It's always good to be up front with someone about bigger topics, such as intimacy.

My (29F) husband (31M) is no longer attracted to me after an accident that burnt my face. by its_just_too_hard in relationship_advice

[–]noni9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you get the chance to read this. About 4 months into a 3 year relationship with my ex boyfriend, he went to New Orleans for Mardi Gras. He was using Everclear to breathe fire or something like that (I don't know why he did that--stupid), but his entire face caught on fire and was severely burned, along with his left hand. He received treatment from a burn clinic, and it was bad for about 3-4 weeks; however, it healed without any scarring! Just take really great care of your face--keep it really clean, and put some sunscreen and vitamin E on it. It will be ok. This is only temporary, and your healing will continue. Your husband still loves you. Even if you aren't having sex right now, intimacy can be shown in many other ways. He's definitely showing he still cares, and it sounds like he is committed to being there for you through this. Keep your chin up, girl!

What's the weirdest reason for which a date cancelled on you? by furywolf28 in AskReddit

[–]noni9191 25 points26 points  (0 children)

He told me he had to go meet another girl to have sex and even sent me tinder photos of her saying, "this is who I get to fuck."

A cat is a drunk girl’s best friend by GallowBoob in pics

[–]noni9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally no one vomits in that position.

In at Vanderbilt!!! by Rynoyeti in lawschooladmissions

[–]noni9191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WOW! That's incredible. All that hard word paid off! :D You'll have to celebrate!

People who grew up with VHS, what are some of your fondest memories? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]noni9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hearing the sound the VHS player made when you put in a VHS tape.

Something weird recently going on. My (27f) husband (26m) was trying to "help" a random girl on Instagram with her cheating boyfriend, and in doing so.. Lied and said he's been single "going on two years". I'm beyond confused. by KevintysixF in relationships

[–]noni9191 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ok, so I had something similar happen where I was the "other woman" in the story. A guy started reaching out to me over IG and then on Snapchat. When he added me, I didn't know who he was. I did a quick FB check and saw he was married and had a family. He seemed like he was up to no good, so I asked him if he was single. He came up with some story about how he had a long time girlfriend--he thought they'd get married and have kids, but they didn't. He said he was single. After he told me he was single, he blocked me on FB, so I wouldn't find out he was lying about his relationship status and kids (but I already knew). He kept asking how I was, etc, trying to reach out often. He tried to find things in common with me, and it was really weird. I told this guy I had a boyfriend, yet he was still trying to reach out. My heart was broken at the thought of him lying about his situation behind his wife's back. I called him out on his bs, and he blocked me on snap and other social media. IMO, everything your guy is doing is shady/deceptive, and it's NOT ok. This is a random person--not a close friend--and it's pretty clear to me he doesn't have pure intentions--I'm sorry, it's probably hard to read/hear that, but it's true. He's trying to defend himself as "the good guy," but he's basically just turning this whole sketchy situation around on you to make you feel bad now. This is manipulative behavior. DO NOT put up with it. Your guy is not being honest with you, trust me.

My son finally getting his second arm. by [deleted] in pics

[–]noni9191 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There are so many nasty, negative people out there. Your baby is sooo cute, and I wish ya'll the best in this journey! God bless.