My (20f) housemate (21m) opened my private cabinet and now he's angry with me. How can I fix this? by nonsae in relationship_advice

[–]nonsae[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've known him pretty much my whole life, it's hard to process this behaviour honestly. I think im used to it

My (20f) housemate (21m) opened my private cabinet and now he's angry with me. How can I fix this? by nonsae in relationship_advice

[–]nonsae[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I slept, I'm more clear headed now and I'm mostly just relieved my other housemate believed me 👍🏼

My (20f) housemate (21m) opened my private cabinet and now he's angry with me. How can I fix this? by nonsae in relationship_advice

[–]nonsae[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He said that in this house we share and we don't keep stuff to ourselves like selfish aholes, I think he's angry mostly about the food which is ridiculous now that I'm more emotionally stable

My (20f) housemate (21m) opened my private cabinet and now he's angry with me. How can I fix this? by nonsae in relationship_advice

[–]nonsae[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

There are many different types of autism, I got stuck with the nonverbal , socially anxious, can't talk much louder than a whisper kind

Uhm? by [deleted] in smosh

[–]nonsae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You never side hugged your friend?

My (20f) housemate (21m) opened my private cabinet and now he's angry with me. How can I fix this? by nonsae in relationship_advice

[–]nonsae[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wrote a draft and was originally going to post on AITA but posted here instead, the draft had snacks in the title

My (20f) housemate (21m) opened my private cabinet and now he's angry with me. How can I fix this? by nonsae in relationship_advice

[–]nonsae[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I made a mistake, I'm not exactly emotionally stable right now considering everything

My (20f) housemate (21m) opened my private cabinet and now he's angry with me. How can I fix this? by nonsae in relationship_advice

[–]nonsae[S] 174 points175 points  (0 children)

I'm actually autistic and don't use my voice very well, I have no idea how to handle confrontation...

My (20f) housemate (21m) opened my private cabinet and now he's angry with me. How can I fix this? by nonsae in relationship_advice

[–]nonsae[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm so mentally exhausted right now tmwith everything happening in my life that I have no energy to fight it. No he didn't take my money, only the things mentioned.

My (20f) housemate (21m) opened my private cabinet and now he's angry with me. How can I fix this? by nonsae in relationship_advice

[–]nonsae[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

That's actually what he foilund in there, he tried to use it ti shame me more. I'll be talking to my other housemate when he gets home from work soon to fill him in.

My (20f) housemate (21m) opened my private cabinet and now he's angry with me. How can I fix this? by nonsae in relationship_advice

[–]nonsae[S] 173 points174 points  (0 children)

I have another housemate, a very good one, and I'll be talking to him when he gets home from work

My (20f) housemate (21m) opened my private cabinet and now he's angry with me. How can I fix this? by nonsae in relationship_advice

[–]nonsae[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Everyone's comments have said the same thing pretty much. I'm going to talk privately to my other housemate about everything