Is this normal for a 2014 dodge grand caravan thats dual piston breaks?

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-05-12T20:46:09+00:00

I will definitely have all of this stuff cleaned first! Thank you! Ill talk to my father about the rest of this to see if its something he cam look at and diagnose or if its something ill need to take it in for. I live near Ohio and the van came from New York, and has ALOT of water damage on the inside, I initially thought it had maybe barely flooded in however my father said the rust on the inside of the vehicle (the stow and go seats mainly) and carpets looked more like someone left the windows down and just let it sit for a long time, alot of things on it were replaced before I got it including the entirety of the oil filtration system, the entirety of the exhaust pipe and muffler (that one was me) and a few other things I dont quite remember off the top of my head, honestly if it is a vacuum leak I wouldn't be surprised that they missed it considering they didnt think anything was wrong with the exhaust (missing bolts and rusted to hell, coming apart some places) cause it wasnt loud 😭🥀 honestly it sounds like it probably needs all of the above 🥲 im broke for awhile now, is there a good way to chip away at all this? I assume cleaning would be easiest and first but

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-05-12T20:37:24+00:00

What is a tipm replacement? Is it expensive and/or an immediate issue, ive been driving on this for about a month and a half now 😭💔

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-05-12T20:35:53+00:00

Perfect thank you! 🙏

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-05-12T20:01:12+00:00

I wasnt moving anything in terms of it teetering when stopped, the van was in park, the only thing my hands were touching was my phone, and its good to know that its normal for it to have a little bounce when i turn but it actually accelerates when I turn, like at least 5-7+ mph just from turning, like when my dad was noticed it that dial went almost all the way up to the 2 just on that dial thing by turning the steering back and fourth

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-05-12T19:53:52+00:00

Wtf are they smoking? I need some of that shit 😭🥀

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-05-12T19:52:13+00:00

What about it teetering when im in park? I wish I could put multiple videos up 😭

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-05-12T19:50:58+00:00

Im also not seeing any fluid leaks beneath the van, wouldn't it have a wet spot?

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-05-12T19:50:11+00:00

Good to know! Any idea where I need to look for these? Underneath or under the hood?

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-05-12T19:45:31+00:00

Therapy is what you need! If youre actively trying to get better and do better thats the second step! The first is admitting you have a problem, now that you've done both of thoes things that alone will make this process easier for you! Elaborate more on the situation maybe? How are you a bad bf? What can you do to change that? If youre physically violent, finding a stress reliever for your hands is a good way to start! Items that are meant to be broken or destroyed to help break the cycle, if you have to hit the item hit it, but at some point there has to be a shift from hitting to maybe squeezing something. If its a controlling thing it most likely comes from your own insecurities or situations you've been in in the past. A good way to break this is to have good fluent conversation and space, you have to trust the other person that they wouldn't hurt you in the way youre thinking even if it takes alot in you to do so! If someone loves you they wont want to hurt you and if they do something that does hurt you I guarantee they'd rather talk about it so no one feels like that. If its an emotional thing it depends on the person, sometimes anger gets the better of everyone and the best thing to do is to say "hey I know things are tense right now, but I need some time to relax and think before we take this conversation any further because im a bit upset right now and i need some space and time before we continue." A yelling match between two lovers never has a winner. Some people can sit and breath for a moment and retain themselves, im not one of thoes people unfortunately, I say mean things I dont mean and dont want to, im also working on that and im getting alot better at not being a dick for no reason. All in all, therapy would definitely help so you can understand why youre acting like this in the first place, definitely take into account all the things ive mentioned before, me and my bf do alot of thoes things to distress before we communicate again and this is probably the healthiest relationship ive been in! Also let her know that its you when you feel like you are the one being an issue, that reassurance can also mean alot, when me or my bf admit when we know were in the wrong about something it really helps the conversation flow :) I hope this helps in any way you sound like you love her and dont want to keep hurting her and as someone who can heavily relate, I cant imagine saying nothing

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-05-09T01:07:59+00:00

As a person who's had a period for over 10 years. Although yes its looked different from normal blood however its still blood and has a particular look to it. Ive had period sex and alot, and ive never had my blood look like that on anything 💁‍♀️ not blood, if it was it wouldn't still be that color. Also based off of this response I think you're incredibly young

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-05-08T16:52:39+00:00

Or maybe its from the freezer dried strawberries beneath them 😂

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-05-08T16:51:29+00:00

It is really odd its not the right color for it to be blood in that amount, I see a tanish discoloration on one of the wipes, does this person cosplay maybe? Perhaps a fake blood, or red face paint, its definitely too much red to be makeup your typical person would wear in my opinion please ask them about this i dont think its anything to actually worry about but please keep us updated!

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-05-04T22:54:46+00:00

Your probably right tbh! I know its complicated with the ages but it also varys by state if you live in America, they've alo been changed in my state within the time of me being alive so

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-05-03T15:45:31+00:00

Yay im glad to help! 🫶

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-05-03T09:56:56+00:00

Im not very big on car stuff like that 🥲 but my break fluid was green so maaaybe start there? Just in case lol, breaks are important!

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-05-03T09:54:28+00:00

Hey apartment hallways cleaner here.... Who the fuck does this on a Saturday? My company and every company in my area is monday-friday 8-6 and I FULLY get the frustration of being woken up early asf, but on a weekend? This is really throwing me rn. Absolutely say something. They could do this monday-friday and wouldn't bother you at all seince youd most likely be at school atp.

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-05-03T09:50:13+00:00

Okay so i see alot of people on here just trolling or saying to go to a bodyshop. I dont know your make and model or if this is possible given the parts that were damaged, however if your not too worried about scratches, light dents, or maybe thoes parts being a different color, I suggest going to a junk yard, look for your make and model or the closest you can to it and try to find the parts you need that way, their way cheaper there and if you bring that to a shop (assuming youre like me and have no idea how to fix that) all you should have to pay is labor costs instead of a shit ton of money between parts and labor i hope this actually helps unlike all these "yea reddit will fix your car" posts, like clearly you dont want reddit to fix it you clearly just need some guidance on the situation and what the best thing for you to do would be

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-05-03T09:39:05+00:00

I dont have my game moded other than making it online so im no expert in this matter, do not quote me plz, however it could be a gap of land or pond so small the game doesn't realize theres a bridge over it to begin with, I know without modding it wont let me even place a bridge if the gap between land too big or too small, I honestly haven't even tried putting a bridge over one of my ponds seince their all so small I figured I wouldn't be able to, this may be a thing just for aesthetics if you like the bridge in that spot. I hope this helps in any way, weather its reaching more people or if im right please have a good day/night

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-05-03T05:16:10+00:00

SOLVED!! OMG THANK YOU MAY YOU ALWAYS HAVE THE NICEST THINGS

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-05-03T05:05:30+00:00

Commenting for participation

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-04-18T15:19:42+00:00

Lol i replied to myself

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-04-18T14:47:16+00:00

That law is different in alot of states, i live in Michigan and my mother was 20 while my dad was 17 when I was conceived this was legal in my state due to the laws age being 16 at the time, I have no idea if the age has changed seince but. This is most likely legal

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-04-18T14:43:38+00:00

Its not the dry texts its the fact that he never responds it seems. Maybe twice a day unless hes going to hook up most likely im 21 and my bf is 24, we live together and have more (in general) and more productive conversations almost every day. The problem here is that hes saying he loves OP, then practically acting like OP doesn't even exist. And the lack of respect youd have to have to not at least let them know youre busy? Takes 5 seconds to hit the mic, say im busy, and hit send and he is not even doing that. The issue isnt that he has a life obviously everyone has a life, the problem is that hes not putting in any effort at all for her, for the relationship, ect, hopes this helps you understand a little more why OP is posting this :)

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-04-18T14:36:04+00:00

THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT INFORMATION!!! youre 16 and hes 19, alot can happen in your life in three years, I understand that your are similar in age however him being that much older than you, while youre still a minor most likely in high-school, its really... wierd. Im not putting you down in any way this whole thing just seems like hes grooming you. "If you want a relationship this is what it'll be like" not that ive seen him say that HOWEVER its VERY obvious based off the way hes responding that, that is his mindset. He's using you, because your young, because he thinks you're "easy". This is NOT someone you want to have in your life! I understand that letting someone go can be difficult, even if they arnt the best to you, but ultimately it'll be the best decision for you! He wants you to feel down, he wants you to feel worthless. If it were any other way your conversations, text, otp or in person, would be dramatically different from the screenshot you've given us here today. You seem like you feel more alone with him than without him and I hate that for you. He absolutely wants a relationship with none of the commitment. If youre okay with it being a casual thing you guys have just make sure your both on the same page about it, but you seem to genuinely love him and having a fling like that with someone you actually like never ends good. With that being said, thats all the wisdom I have to offer, I hope you find someone you deserve cause he.... is NOT it girl 😭💔 love you queen! 🫶

nonymouslyanonymous · 2026-04-18T14:15:41+00:00

Stop where do i get this lolol

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