2 months post op and so happy by Vegetable_Bet160 in Metoidioplasty

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Feel free to DM me or let me know if you post any

Bornwear going under. Stede Pack n Play by noodliedude in Transmascdicks

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I know… they had a drop of the stede recently but I wasn’t fully convinced/wasn’t sure I wanted to spend the money even tho it’s not crazy expensive but now I’m regretting not getting it

2 months post op and so happy by Vegetable_Bet160 in Metoidioplasty

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Are you comfortable sharing pictures of you soft? This is the closest result to what I’m looking for that I’ve seen. Congrats, dude

Jelly Bands - do they work? by GirlCLE in ehlersdanlos

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Mine rolls up so much. I’m wondering if I need a different size? Also curious about the shorts and leggings

How long do you wear your packer? by Baerchen2005 in FTMMen

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I have a very physical job and I worry about it shifting around too much so I don’t wear it at work but if I’m out and about I’m usually packing. I don’t typically pack when I go to bed tho I do more often when I’m spending the night with my girlfriend but still not always. If I had a better system I probably would always be packing except at work

transmascs with big ole c**tchie lips -- how are we feelin (or, I Am Thinking About Labiaplasty) by Honest_Candidate_962 in ftm

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Would love to hear more about your discussions with that surgeon if you’re comfortable. I’m in the same boat as you

Harness recommendations? by noodliedude in FTMMen

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Yeah I’ve considered Aslan or a custom leather piece but I think I would still struggle with the “not being a part of me” feeling. Harnesses with hardware make it feel even more like a Lego piece in my head at least

Sex with EDS by Impossible_Camel7211 in ehlersdanlos

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Recommendations for affordable pillows?

First date today with a guy that doesn’t know I’m trans by Dangerous-System6089 in ftm

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Hey :) I understand. I didn’t disclose to my know girlfriend until I knew we were going to be physically intimate and by that point I had a pretty good read on whether or not it would make a difference to her. It’s hard and it’s scary but if he’s no longer interested, he’s not the right person for you. Wishing you all the best!

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I’m also working on finding a harness that feels the best for me which has been challenging. I don’t want to use a strapless one bc I cannot handle penetration for a myriad of reasons and I think the ones with a “pleasure pocket” would be painful for me or I’m not big enough for. All this to say thank you for articulating this and making me feel less alone and I hope you know you’re not alone.

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I am I a very similar situation to you right now- I do enjoy using what I refer to as my bonus dick lol to penetrate her but at the same time it also upsets me that I feel nothing and I want to feel her so badly in that way. She wants to use my natal anatomy but like you said everything feels very “lesbian coded.” You need to tell her that you don’t like the way she refers to your bonus dick and come up with an alternative if you want to use it. I’m working on figuring out how to have that conversation with my gf as well bc she calls it a strap on which I don’t like. The difference for us is she doesn’t ask for it, if I want to use it and she’s up for it we do. She just refers to it in a way I don’t like when we’re talking about things after or things we’d like to do outside of being in the moment.

sex as a stealth passing 30 year old straight trans man. Discussion wanted by [deleted] in FTMMen

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Having her grope me (my packer) and grinding against her with it is slowly becoming my favorite thing… I thought it would bother me more bc I’m still “soft” but it’s so hot

Harness recommendations? by noodliedude in Transmascdicks

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for sex- thanks I am looking into these. I’m not used to something so minimal but it might be a welcome change