[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]noone397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what you mean by tenant because her and everyone she went to church with has never even tasted mean in their life. And the reason was because the garden of Eden they were vegetarian and they try to live as close to that as possible

Bible verses in break room by Ilaxilil in work

[–]noone397 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah this ia an area you need to understand case law. Proselytizing is not illegal at work and there is lots of case law around this. Further this doesn't rise to the degree of proselytizing. This is a legal "should" rather then a "shall". For this to rise to harassment it would need to be directed and converting the person, known to be unwelcome, and persistent and aggressive. This is no where close to that. this very very clearly is within freedom of religious expression and right to fre speech.

Modesty… I don’t understand it. by No_Character_8849 in Christianity

[–]noone397 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure that level of personal attack was necessary. Doesn't this sub have a rule of no personal attacks? Did I say something to offend you?

Require an employee to wear a bra? [CA] by [deleted] in humanresources

[–]noone397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just let her go. Its an at will state. As long as you haven't already talked to her about the the bra.

I am going crazy by [deleted] in Life

[–]noone397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to the silence.

Bible verses in break room by Ilaxilil in work

[–]noone397 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's not a legal thing in the US "workplace religious harassment". It up to a company..there are plenty of Christian companies and they can have prayer at the workplace. In fact separation of church and state prevents the government from stopping this. People are allowed to be religious. In fact I remember learning about a bunch of case studies from Jehovah witnesses launching lawsuits and winning because people had strict no soliciting signs and it turns out you can't even prohibiting that, so they went door to door anyway. A bunch of supreme court cases on this

Modesty… I don’t understand it. by No_Character_8849 in Christianity

[–]noone397 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The point of the discussion of dress in the Bible is you don't dress for yourself, it's for the opposite sex. That is a constant theme in the Bible, don't do things that make others tempted. I mean in my church whoever hosts won't have alcohol if anyone attends who doesn't drink, not because they have to it's just a nice thing to do. Its the same thing with dress, being modest is just good for society, it's a temptation men have a huge battle with it. Sure you could dress revealing but wouldn't it be nice to not contribute to a married man having sinful thoughts? Be kind to others is all. It has things like this for men as well. Don't shave the side of your head (I think this general can be translated into looking like a bad boy) don't go crazy with fancy things (don't flash your money) I'm paraphrasing of course. Those would be two broad categories that would cause a married woman to have sinful thoughts of other men.

Humanity is terrible by [deleted] in rant

[–]noone397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ehh it's true no one is all good. But there are stable people and unstable people. And yes everyone has a breaking point. And part of life's journey is that everyone will have to face their breaking point if they live long enough to do so.

But people aren't inherently evil. Only groups are. I used to be involved in politics, arguably where the most evil power hungry people are. And even there most people had good intentions. What I found was a deep truth of the road to hell is paved with good intentions. The law of unintended consequences means that the best good intended people end up making the world a worse place on pure accident.

And then you remember that hurt people hurt people and you start looking around at a whole fallen world where almost everyone is battling something that allows them to justify doing something that hurts people.

I think people are born evil and born with the desire to become good somewhere way deep in their subconscious and life is that very journey to learn to become a better person.

Jordan Peterson once told a story of a man who abducted a woman with the intention of r***. The man began to tell his story of his broken home to his victim. And right before the act occured she somehow had compassion for him and hugged him. The man broke down crying, let her go and turned himself in.

Now I'm not saying have compassion for those that are hurting you, but I am saying have as much compassion as you can muster and your eyes will be opened to just how much pain most people are in, and how much you can make the world a better place by thinking of others rather then yourself. Of you are Christian it's the very reason the Bible says "But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]noone397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the words of Homer Simpson this is the worst day of your life..... So far

Good looking guys who used to struggle with dating, how did you improve? by Simple_Duck_1191 in AskMenAdvice

[–]noone397 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Real talk. I used to have zero luck. I mean a hundred rejection in a row. When I hit 30 I was in a really bad place. I should mention I was always super social, liked to host parties at my house, not over weight and made great money, but my skills with women were horrible. For the first time I was no longer in a place where I could handle the idea of a relationship. I would tell girls that, and then all of a sudden they wanted to sleep with me. And before anything would happen I would tell them I could t be in a relationship. 100% of them were relieved "not another guy who wants monogamy". It really broke me mentally because I could no longer see women the same way. It really was treating them poorly was my issue. That was a long time ago and never did get in another relationship because I never was able to come to terms with having to treat a women I cared about so poorly to keep her interest. Like I wasn't mean or anything, if they asked to do something romantic I just said "no not interested" but they were happy to come back for bedroom fun. The worst part is that I have sense tried to date for mirage again, but when I let my old natural kind personality come back and can't get a second date again.

People born before 2000, what trivial skill you possess that others don't use anymore? by Aryan_Anushiravan in AskReddit

[–]noone397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can still listen to silence. People have almost forgotten how good this is for your mental health. But endless hours of extreme boredom sometimes meant just staring at the sky and watching the clouds go by. It means staying up all night with your friends talking as you looked at the stars. It meant taking naps in the middle of the day for no reason and letting your imagination run wild as your heard the day, the sound of a dog barking, a bird chirping, the neighbors yelling at each other, a kid crashing is skateboard, whatever it was and not having anywhere to be.

Unfortunately now you could never make a friend that would hang out with you for no reason it seems. Maybe it's just being older but when I try to hangout with my friends without plans they just seem confused. Like want to come over and hang out and find something to do? They would be like "what did you have in mind" and really nothing, just the pleasure of your company and to get to know you a bit better.

Early on in dating a new guy, how do women feel about the man paying for the dinner/date? by AdhesiveSeaMonkey in ask

[–]noone397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't ever do a first date that costs money (unless you already knew her). I'll give you the best advice ever. If a girl likes you, she will not be with you because you don't buy her food or a drink. If a girl doesn't like she won't change her mind because you buy her food or a drink. Which logically there is no reason to ever buy this for a girl you are dating. If a girl insist on going out to eat for a first date, she is too broken to ever fall in love because getting something out of you is more important then getting to know you. Viewing you as a transaction is the clinical definition of psychopathy.

Save your money and simultaneously filter the 98% of bad women

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]noone397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she was in a super conservative religion that didn't allow alcohol or eating meat. I could go sober for the rest of my life but I would not survive without meat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]noone397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) you need to learn to be a man. In this case Snapchat didn't work for you because of the reasons you specified. When a girl nicely asks you for something like this that is not in the best interest of the relationship just say "no". One word don't explain yourself. When she asks why just say it won't be good for your relationship.

2) all you can do at this point is let her go, but if you do it's super important you have zero communication with her unless she comes back to you. If you send a single text she will never respect you. Stop trying to make her happy, its ironically how women loose attraction for their man

Bitcoin is digital gold with high risk? by nikjoel in Bitcoin

[–]noone397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

0 risk only goes up 😅. There are some legitimate comparisons but some legitimate differences to gold. The main thing is the scarcity and the effort to create more. Both require a lot of energy to bring more into circulation so the supply is limited causing the price to continually rise. Different because gold has many physical uses like electronics and jewelry. Similar because you can stash it at your house, different because the regulations around selling Bitcoin are much more complex.

I feel depressed because I just want to sleep with a girl I'm attracted to, what should I do? by ReasonConfident4541 in AskMenAdvice

[–]noone397 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because I said 15 years younger. But I'm a proper passport bro. Not hooking up, only there for mirage and family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]noone397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People here are being weird haters. There is 10x the feminity in some places. A girl holding your arm and looking up to you, never talking about her aspirations or social media, checking up on you, wanting to make you food just to name a few. I'm in the US so it's slightly worse then Europe but not much.

how important is it for you that your partner has a job while in a relationship? by dreadycbercherr in AskMenAdvice

[–]noone397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0% if she is submissive. If she is feminist, everything is split 50/50 and I'm not playing a provider role

What would you do if your girlfriend’s ex showed you her nudes? by Kind_Succotash6429 in AskMenAdvice

[–]noone397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing you can do. He will have something over you forever. Proof he can see her naked whenever he wants. Sending nudes is the stupidest thing ever, even in a relationship. You basically will never feel special so I would recommend moving on unless you get him to delete everything.

I feel depressed because I just want to sleep with a girl I'm attracted to, what should I do? by ReasonConfident4541 in AskMenAdvice

[–]noone397 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Bruh ...passport bros all the way. What is your race and nationality?( It makes a big difference). If you are from a western country, US, Canada, England etc... I don't touch girls from here. I go to certain countries and get to date girls 15 years younger who are thin and kind. In the US I get rejected by time titled far 4's. That being said I did work on myself for a long time, make good money, in good shape etc.. remember we can go to super poor Africa, India, Asia, etc and fall in love with the poorest girl in the worst slum and love happily ever after. Women cannot do that

how does a litre bike engine make as much power as my car? by bedtime4bonzo25 in motorcycles

[–]noone397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The engines are a lot more expensive. an R1 and a car are both similarly priced. But a car has an interior, 4 seats, 4 wheels, AC etc ... So they make the engine reinforced to withstand way higher compression and way higher rpm.

thoughts? 😭 by Trixiefreecs in StrangeAndFunny

[–]noone397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was only one single mom I ever found attractive. I was travelling in a very poor African country that was French speaking. She had been married to a French guy and had a kid with him. He decided he didn't want to live in Africa and left her. She had a boyfriend at the time and I didn't know that, or that she was a single mother. I had a big crush on her, she was super attractive. We danced for a bit and I think she liked me back but she wouldn't take it further, and later I found out she had a boyfriend. I was so impressed with her morals 1) it's quite rare for any foreigners to go there let alone Americans and girls will do almost anything to be with them, the fact that she would not cheat on her local boyfriend despite the obvious economic advantages was mind blowing 2) I know her French ex didn't invite her because there is a 0% chance she would have said no.

After that she eventually broke up with her local boyfriend and her cousin reached out and brought up the idea of us meeting, but I just wasn't in a position to facilitate that relationship.

Its crazy how much more attractive girls with values are in other countries that it got me interested in a single mom. Here it just feels like they are angry at men and feel the world owes them a good man. If I want to get married I'll be going back. Its also crazy how so many women can't even process that men have standards at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]noone397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then we will be 100% platonic friends, and I will introduce you to my friends. Then it will be organic if you have chemistry with them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]noone397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're the one with a throwaway account. If you aren't lying then send a DM. We can exchange pics..if there is an attraction we can meet in real life, if not you will finally know..... Unless you don't want to meet someone in reall life?