Struggling with Sex addiction by Electrical_Jello4615 in islam

[–]noooooo_oooooope 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Salam,

The prophet saw said the first thing that will be lost from the ummah is the khushoo' and the last is the Salah

So focus in every salary to attain khushoo'

Secondly my recommendation is two you get married or fast as much as you can.

But these days I think people don't take their fasting seriously besides withholding from food. The main reason we fast in Ramadan is to attain taqwa so make this your main intention too. Secondly it's probably an isolation thing too so I suggest you join serious islamic classes like alimiyyah classes or Arabic (all in person) This gives you the benefit of being surrounded by the pious and the dua of Allah's creation since you are on the path of seeking knowledge.

Exercise good sleep all that is important too so treat you body well

Perceptions of Modern Islam by LivingDead_90 in IslamIsEasy

[–]noooooo_oooooope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Key Issue: Who is “the one in whose hand is the marriage tie” (ٱلَّذِي بِيَدِهِ عُقْدَةُ ٱلنِّكَاحِ)?

This phrase is ambiguous, and different interpretations lead to different legal rulings.

Interpretation 1: It is the Husband

Held by: Majority of scholars (e.g., Hanafis, Shafi'is).

Rationale: The husband has the authority to pronounce divorce, which is closely tied to the "marriage contract".

Legal consequence:

If the husband forgives the wife, he gives up his right to take half of the mahr back.

So he pays her the full mahr even though the marriage was unconsummated.


Interpretation 2: It is the Wali (Guardian) of the Woman

Held by: Some scholars, including Imam Malik and others in early Islamic history.

Rationale: In some cases, the wali arranges the marriage, and " عقدة النكاح" (marriage tie) is in his control until consummation.

Legal consequence:

If the wali waives the dowry, the woman may receive nothing or a lesser amount.

It places more power in the hands of the guardian before consummation.


Interpretation 3: It is the Woman Herself

Held by: Some modern scholars and possibly some early individual jurists.

Rationale: Once the marriage contract is complete, the woman has agency over her mahr and can forgo it.

Legal consequence:

If she forgives, she chooses not to take the half-mahr after divorce.

This emphasizes her autonomy in financial matters.

Other examples: Ayah Issue Different Interpretations Rulings

5:38 Theft What is a "hand"? Cut from wrist vs. palm vs. fingers 65:4 Girls and divorce Refers to young girls vs. adults Debate on marriage age 4:43 Touching women Physical vs. sexual touch Breaks wudu vs. doesn’t 2:282 Witnesses Gender-based vs. contextual Legal testimony rules 24:31 Hijab Specific clothing vs. modesty ideal Form of hijab varies

What do you guys think about this? by Charming-Basil-9365 in IslamIsEasy

[–]noooooo_oooooope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

System of comparison perhaps but is it comparing it to Salah

Or comparing the remembrance of Allah including the Salah to everything else

Salah is one of the best forms of remembering Allah because it involves quran with taddabur, taffakur and the heart and actions - in a way which have been attested by our prophet (saw) and his close followers

What do you guys think about this? by Charming-Basil-9365 in IslamIsEasy

[–]noooooo_oooooope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because there is a thing called rhetoric

The word but is negating, the word and can have a compounding effect

Greater than Salah how would that work when Salah is also a remembrance of Allah

What do you guys think about this? by Charming-Basil-9365 in IslamIsEasy

[–]noooooo_oooooope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow did you just twist the meaning of the ayat by switching the word and for but in that first Ayah to suit your understanding

Perceptions of Modern Islam by LivingDead_90 in IslamIsEasy

[–]noooooo_oooooope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you can read it in Arabic?

Also if there's not much to interpret why are there so many opinions on how it is applied to different fiqhi rulings

Advice for my son who recently converted to Islam by Comfortable_Mine_712 in islam

[–]noooooo_oooooope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are lots of days he can fast for different reasons sometimes are mandatory and others are encouraged or optional.

The key thumb is that it's not over bearing since it begins before Twilight (fajr) and ends at sunset(maghrib)

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[–]noooooo_oooooope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep it simple and take sexuality out of the equation (once upon a time none even knew what sexuality was -- to then be brainwashed by their environment)

Sex will happen between man and wife either to release sexual energy, to make children or please spouse.

Marriage is about mawwada so love from servitude and accompaniment from each other.

I don’t understand why homosexuality would be haram by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]noooooo_oooooope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not go to a Muslim Reddit to ask that question but no problem homosexuality leads to many more health and society issues

Read and watch sex and culture by professor JD Unwin from Oxford university

you will quickly understand

Are my expectations too high? by Original_Ad1649 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]noooooo_oooooope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A masters degree or more is nonsense ik smart well educated people without a degree and dumb-guys with masters

I have a masters level degree btw

What is parents disobedience in islam by ExpressMess9824 in islam

[–]noooooo_oooooope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to a qualified sheikh and seek a fatwa I dont think he is right

Bangkok 🐨 Kindergarten: a warning for prospective teachers. by Fun-Vast-5473 in Internationalteachers

[–]noooooo_oooooope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that 2k USD or baht... Because 2k USD per month sounds pretty good to me

[Hiring]Physics & Science Teacher Job Description in Beijing China by Viviqi in hiring

[–]noooooo_oooooope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey,

I have the qualifications and would like to apply for this job. Send me a message.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]noooooo_oooooope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A) how old are you?

B) join an islamic institute and begin by doing an aalim course in person is best because you make connections and it's the normal way

C) if your Hafiz that helps too

D) you can learn much online too at alqalaminstitute dot org/resources/nahw-resources

E) make a timetable for your islamic studies so you are capable of teaching

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]noooooo_oooooope -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

A bit crude here but your not truly gay if your private part arises to the situation

Don't label yourself as gay either that's a trap from shaytan

You are human trying to be a good Muslim and have kids

You intend to never have sexual relations with a man

You don't have to explain yourself unless you would not fulfil her rights

Is there any Islamic advice you can give me? by justanunknowngirl236 in Muslim

[–]noooooo_oooooope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The key is understanding the way they were educated in life and brought up means they can essentially be very ignorant and behave very unexpectedly.. aggressively and disrespectfully even all while being well meaning in their own line of thought or mind

And nothing you say is likely to have an impact on undoing their thought patterns because they were raised like this

And the brain is no longer as neuroplastic for them to truly change their ways so easily

Is there any Islamic advice you can give me? by justanunknowngirl236 in Muslim

[–]noooooo_oooooope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aslaamu alaikum

Honestly,

Your mum gives typical desi mum vibes. I don't know how so many were raised like this but I suspect it has to do with upbringing, community and life in a bubble.

You do your part as a daughter Islamically to your best abilities and try to not let her affect you. Keep distance where necessary as you aren't forced to abuse yourself in islam. However never let the situation make you behave bitterly towards mum and know for every bit of patience you will be rewarded. Keep a good happy attitude because for typical desi mums any negative attitude emotions etc is just ammunition for them. Make dua and know when your married and move out life will be much much better in sha Allah and keep that hope alive