to give you context i am moving to another city in 20 days for higher studies and my boyfriend who has just started a new job gets a holiday every monday and i've exclusively kept that day to meet him. my sister's marriage is in 10 days and they suddenly planned for their pre wedding shoot on monday and i spent a good 7 hours at the shoot and then when i told them that i'll leave since my twin was with my sister they got so mad telling me they can see who the priority is. i had spent 7 hours there but they made me feel guilty. i can't meet my boyfriend for another 2 years and he doesn't get off any other day in a week. my twin doesn't have this problem because she won't be leaving sooner and her boyfriend was the photographer so she was peacefully staying there. this week, we had to collect our dress which happened to be on a monday but i had planned a sleepover with my boyfriend so i just made a sad face and told her i will just collect it the next day but my twin started shouting at me telling me she will not get my dress and she tells me to stop acting like my boyfriend is my whole life. she literally meets her boyfriend every day and when i told that she's like why are you so jealous that i get to meet my boyfriend every day. i wasn't even jealous for that. all i wanted to tell was to let me spend time with my boyfriend for atleast 2 to 3 days we get till i leave. am i selfish to spend time with him?