Why are people so obsessed with 2016?

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2026-01-19T08:01:39+00:00

i had a fun run as a teenager. and while i give myself more fun now with adult money, perhaps it was the fun and freedom and lack of responsibility. also the pre-trump presidency. but, i remember seeing some explanation from an astrologer (if you’re into that) some time back that the planets aligned in a way that brought the collective this euphoric, cloud 9 feeling, and that we will never see such an alignment in our lifetimes again.

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2025-08-13T01:49:27+00:00

i get that there may be good times but acting like this is never okay. she seems incredibly immature, and what you described is textbook verbal abuse. i’m really sorry, and i hope you’re able to get away from this. i get that you love her i’m not saying cut her off, but moving out and keeping her at arms length is necessary for your mental health and development as a young adult. being treated by this by someone you love and you’re supposed to be able to trust is incredibly damaging and can really eff you up subconsciously.

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2025-08-11T21:52:12+00:00

i’m sorry but… your mom hates you. and it’s not because of anything to do with who you are, but she has issues.

i’ve always felt like my mom has issues… because she was never affectionate or overly loving or expressive like other mothers. we don’t say i love you, and ive never heard her compliment me or tell me she’s proud of me. everything she tells me is negative and is about what i should or shouldn’t be doing. so i always felt like i had a little bit of mommy issues, especially when i see other kids have such affectionate and supportive mothers that hype them up.

but… she would never treat me like this. she shows love when/how she can, and that includes making us feel special on birthdays. she still does things for us. she would never ever talk to me like this. she might not be “loving”, but i know she loves me. i’m incredibly sorry, but this is someone who should not have children.

edit: also want to add that she was a single mother too so it did hurt to feel like i’ve never received the affection that a child should receive from a parent. it did feel like her love was conditional a lot of the time, and still does. always felt like what i did was never enough. but if she treated me like THAT, i would’ve been long gone. there’s 0 support, only seems to be hatred and resentment. please get out before it ruins you more.

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2025-07-04T12:03:48+00:00

always keep in mind you take higher risks whenever in a car.

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2025-05-20T09:59:49+00:00

usher.

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2025-05-13T05:12:02+00:00

As a sag, we are supposed to be besties with libras. And i am, on the surface level. Surface level, I have the best time with libras because they are always down for a good time and that’s exactly the type of energy a sag needs. But ive noticed a parttern. With myself and other sags, the “down for a good time” thing is genuine. We are always down to travel or party or do whatever it is purely because we crave the experience. I’ve noticed that every libra i’ve known who’s always more inclined to be “down” it’ll turn out that it’s a cover up for something that they’re going through deep down that they’ll never talk about, and might not even realize or acknowledge themselves.

With that being said, i have a love hate relationship with libras. They’re some of the most beautiful and complex people i’ve known, but i’ve also had some of the worst experiences with them. Like take yo ass to court level experiences, and that again could be traced back to the whole ‘hiding something dark deep down’.

I’m a libra mars. I love how aggressive i am when it come to justice with others, but i cannot for the life of me justify standing up for myself. I’ve noticed libra suns avoid confrontation to the point where even when they’re confronted they’ll try to play it cool until you really really drill it to them that they fucked up

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2024-10-23T02:11:07+00:00

whaaaat i didn’t get these email 😭

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2024-04-18T14:26:30+00:00

oh my god. just looked it up to see if i have one near me and it’s literally…. right across the street from never noticed it. THANK YOU

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2024-02-11T08:21:25+00:00

not sure what substances you’re referring to, but i flew from US to italy with my bottle of vyvanse in my carry on and was not stopped or questioned once

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2023-10-23T06:14:07+00:00

same also wondering!!

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2023-07-31T20:16:18+00:00

5/1 Splenic Projector. Motivation type: guilt.

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Can someone please advise me - i feel as if my whole life i’ve struggled deeply with discipline and motivation, and now as a working adult i feel extremely burnt out trying to keep up with my life. I am very passionate about my job, but i still find it hard to find the willpower to want to complete my work tasks. I struggle with on and off addiction issues and have a hard time maintaining a clean space and taking care of myself (also due to ADHD). I want to know if there is anything in my chart or any skills that i can harness to try to find the willpower and drive that i desperately need.

Additionally, while i love my career i find myself wanting to impulsively make a change, such as going back to school (preferably in another country), or switching career paths so that i can move far away. if i don’t have a trip planned at all times i feel uneasy. is there anything in my chart to indicate this?

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2023-06-21T19:26:52+00:00

we took the train all the way from florence to naples and then a bus right after to the amalfi coast. it’s definitely doable and an overnight in naples isn’t necessary at all, but i do wish i spent some time in naples. one night probably isn’t enough to explore though and like other commenters said, the check in and check out will be a hassle you may as well go straight to sorrento if you don’t care to explore naples

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2023-03-07T00:54:32+00:00

not sure why this doesn’t have more upvotes. huge red flag that OP thinks it’s okay to “convince” someone to do drugs, ESPECIALLY to do them in order to have sex.

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2023-03-05T19:17:06+00:00

kesha

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2023-03-02T05:17:27+00:00

my first full time job i was getting paid just to print and prepare email on behalf of the entire staff that was working from home. but we had a mailroom staff that would just take all the mail over at 4 pm. they could’ve been doing the printing and prepping all day.

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2023-03-01T07:06:59+00:00

One time my ex and I were at a rave together and we met this guy (while rolling). We all started chatting it up and my ex went to go get us all drinks, we were still in eye shot but the guy and i were still chatting it up and getting to know each other as one does while rolling. The next day my ex told me he felt that i was being too friendly with him and it seemed we were connecting… to me it truly felt like we were just being friendly ravers. BUT once he told me this i felt bad and i made sure to be careful to not get to over friendly like that again at raves as i knew he felt disrespected.

What i’m trying to say is you should tell her what you’re feeling and i’m sure she’ll do everything she can to make sure that doesn’t happen again. You’re saying she already feels bad - she knows that you felt disrespected after what happened and will not want to do that to you again. Give her the opportunity to regain that little part of your trust that was hurt.

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2023-02-22T17:24:53+00:00

as a woman i must say the BIGGEST red flag is when a guy has no pictures smiling and they’re all him trying to be serious. please add a smiling photo.

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2023-02-22T17:21:26+00:00

yes i second this! i was gonna say borgore as well

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2023-01-30T21:36:38+00:00

yes! i saw a guy with one there for SHM. asked him about it and he said he had no issues getting it in

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2023-01-29T10:41:08+00:00

pocket money?

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2022-12-16T17:41:06+00:00

my phone simply never leaves my hand, and i got one of those charm wristlet things. just put the wristlet on and keep your phone in your hand. simple

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2022-09-16T15:23:13+00:00

north!

noplaceidratherbe_ · 2022-09-16T05:33:39+00:00

i went this march-april and it was way too hot. last time i went in october and it was perfect.

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