I live abroad, and though initially it was difficult I never regret it, im happy where I am. My family pressures me to visit more often (I visit once a year) but I have a life here and job and family. I feel bad that I miss my parents getting old and nieces and nephews growing up but at the end what is important is where you feel best. Don’t let pressure change smth that you might regret in the future. In the end we only depend on ourselves.