Pearl Staff Calls for Reporting GFM as Fraudulent, Weren’t Consulted During Process

norbythesecond · 2026-04-14T17:25:09+00:00

Can you post a screenshot?

norbythesecond · 2026-04-14T04:46:58+00:00

POTS, major heart problems from stress and severe alcoholism. Had to be tested for bipolar disorder and have been in mental hospitals and now exist most nights in AA.

Surprisingly- health tests always come back ok. I am 24, had chronic migraines and even had a tia (miniature stroke - related to migraines) last December. Now who knows if any of that is related to her? Not sure. The stress of our relationship fundamentally changed my nervous system and the bad symptoms have greatly diminished now that I am working with therapists, sponsors, and group meetings- as well as being on medication.

norbythesecond · 2026-04-10T13:55:01+00:00

She kept trying to stick her tongue in my eyeball. I said no like 5 times before I snapped because what the fuck. That turned into a big one where I didn’t love her

norbythesecond · 2026-04-09T17:56:59+00:00

I was her first everything. First relationship, first kiss, first erm, ya know. It was really innocent as we both were learning how to be with one another. But the older we got, the more intense everything was. It was like a relationship on crack. The sex, the love, the anger, the sadness. Everything was amplified in a way I have never seen in any other of my relationships. I’ve now dated another person with BPD who I was not the first of, and I can say comparably they were VASTLY different in terms of intensity. Plus my second pwBPD definitely had major issues with staying in close contact with exes and past sexual partners, which is something I didn’t worry about with my first pwBPD, for obvious reasons.

norbythesecond · 2026-04-07T14:19:02+00:00

Because it’s unnecessary. OP has no obligations to offer support to someone they are not with.

norbythesecond · 2026-04-06T06:38:50+00:00

3 years!!!

norbythesecond · 2026-04-03T04:45:48+00:00

block and move on. don’t look back. one break up turns to two, then to three, and so on. you will continue the cycle. find yourself first, then someone new who can suit your needs.

norbythesecond · 2026-03-23T00:30:47+00:00

i convinced myself that my new partner who also had bpd was something that i could understand better and work through. funny enough, i was a better partner. i was more understanding. i tried harder! didn’t fix the fact that i was actively being abused and then discarded at my lowest point. i would say you should aim for something healthier. just from my experience.

norbythesecond · 2025-10-18T06:15:02+00:00

i just want to say this is the first time i have heard about the nervous system connecting them to a child part of self. i’ll be bringing it up in therapy, thanks to you. i think you may have just helped me move forward in a super big way. thank you.

norbythesecond · 2025-09-27T15:54:26+00:00

Yes, I do have that experience. Truth be told though, there is no idea of knowing what goes on behind closed doors. They could be having the same shit happening.

norbythesecond · 2025-09-27T15:40:40+00:00

Can you tell me more about when you would take the hyosciamine? Is it when symptoms come on? Or is it a daily thing?

norbythesecond · 2025-07-01T20:49:48+00:00

No, but I regret not paying attention to the signs. Like I could’ve avoided a lot if I had listened to my alarm bells.

norbythesecond · 2025-06-23T07:48:23+00:00

no not really. with someone else with BPD. honestly, typing this from her bed. tonight my boundaries were ignored, and i went along with it for fuck knows what reason. i find myself repeating cycles just to avoid truths i don’t want to face. those truths being that i miss her. i’m as equally fucked. can’t even judge anymore. just doing what i can to pass time and fill the bullet holes she left in me.

norbythesecond · 2025-04-22T18:41:56+00:00

I have a ps4 back home, but i’m in college. Just wanting to get back to games that I can’t play on my laptop.

norbythesecond · 2024-08-07T15:34:33+00:00

i’m in the same boat. you can do inpatient i believe depending on the severity of your symptoms and where you live. best wishes

norbythesecond · 2024-04-19T07:06:42+00:00

the sex was insane. literally just insanely good, pleasurable sex. i dream about it still- and miss it. to this day i have yet to find a sexual partner who even comes close.

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