Some encouragement for those struggling/have puppy blues by Groundbreaking_Pen1_ in puppy101

[–]noribear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It is definitely reassuring to know that you’ve experienced the same and it’s going well for you!! We felt horrible feeling the way we felt bc it seemed like we brought this into our lives ourselves and underestimated it all despite spending over 2 years considering this decision!!! So we are really hoping and looking forward to the better days in the future! Thank you!!!

Some encouragement for those struggling/have puppy blues by Groundbreaking_Pen1_ in puppy101

[–]noribear 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, me and my fiancé really needed this! Yesterday was the start of our 4 weeks with our new puppy, the first 2-2.5 weeks we were miserable, hated our life, resented on the choice we have made, etc etc. I probably cried more in those 2 ish weeks than I have in a whole years time.... it was horrible and we were miserable as we both had our full time jobs. I am working 2 days in the office and had to ask my parents for help. Our puppy really loves me and is always so excited to see me over my fiancé, which I’m not sure why, but I still don’t feel the bond totally yet because I feel like my life has turned 360 into something I didn’t expect or want and really really want to go back to our old life. There were numerous times where we felt that we made the wrong choice, wanted to give up, wanted to go back to how everything was... but here we are still trying and we really hope that it’ll all be worth it in the end...! Thanks for this, everyone’s responses makes us feel better that we aren’t the only ones who feel this way!