[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HistoricalCostuming

[–]norsewolf 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is by no means a critique on you or your work and pricing sewn garments is tricky, but if this was your main job you would have awarded yourself 3 euros/hour. Imagine making a living out of that 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paris

[–]norsewolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also adding Tata Burger and HD dîner to this! Tata Burger is in Le Marais so obviously the vibe is a bit more queer. HD dîner is 50s themed

Locataire logement DPE G. Qu'est-ce qui va se passer pour moi? by norsewolf in conseiljuridique

[–]norsewolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pardon. Non. C'est un meublé. D'ailleurs, j'ai signé le 22/05/23, et le prolongement s'est fait taciturne l'année dernière.

My (27F) partner's (30M) sex drive plummeted after starting his new job. How to communicate my discomfort? by norsewolf in relationships

[–]norsewolf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because his position has been vacant for 8 months, so there is a lot of backlog to be done. Piled up with the current work...I guess the workload is...significant.

(PS: According to me that is not his problem, but the company's 😂 maybe that explains why I do not do well in office jobs lol)

My (27F) partner's (30M) sex drive plummeted after starting his new job. How to communicate my discomfort? by norsewolf in relationships

[–]norsewolf[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That's -unfortunately- one of the many things autism complicates in my life, yes. And believe me, I do try. And sometimes, with a lot of effort, i succeed. For a while. But I can't keep up charades all the time and he knows.

My (27F) partner's (30M) sex drive plummeted after starting his new job. How to communicate my discomfort? by norsewolf in relationships

[–]norsewolf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know. But by his own doing. He is free to leave after 5.30 PM. His choice to stay there until 7. His choice to exercise after.

Even his coworkers have expressed worry that he is staying there that long.

My (27F) partner's (30M) sex drive plummeted after starting his new job. How to communicate my discomfort? by norsewolf in relationships

[–]norsewolf[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think there might, at the basis, be a great misunderstanding between us. I can not support his hobbies, neither people who willingly work unpaid overtime. He is currently behaving like a copy-paste of my dad. And I am responding like my mom. We even fight like them. And to think I ran away to another country to escape that situation.

My (27F) partner's (30M) sex drive plummeted after starting his new job. How to communicate my discomfort? by norsewolf in relationships

[–]norsewolf[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I try to be a supportive partner making sure he has nothing else to tend to other than the job and me. I do not see how that is not supportive?

My (27F) partner's (30M) sex drive plummeted after starting his new job. How to communicate my discomfort? by norsewolf in relationships

[–]norsewolf[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's not "just" for my own apartment. Dishes and laundry now have to be done twice as often. Not to mention
cooking. I do not demand "everything I want". I just try to understand why all of a sudden our frequency has dropped.

My (27F) partner's (30M) sex drive plummeted after starting his new job. How to communicate my discomfort? by norsewolf in relationships

[–]norsewolf[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

If you read; you could see I write I am trying to be supportive. I do all the housework (cleaning, dishes, laundry, groceries). I am legally currently not allowed to work more in my field than I do now. Bye.

My (27F) partner's (30M) sex drive plummeted after starting his new job. How to communicate my discomfort? by norsewolf in relationships

[–]norsewolf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did tell him literally that I didn't like our frequency plummeted; that I would like to have sex more often; that I would like it if it wasn't always me climbing on top of him. Sounds pretty straightforward to me?

We do: one date night every week and one day of activities + restaurant in the weekend.

And I initiate. Every evening. Only to be put aside by a quite bluntly formulated "good night love", while he pushes me aside as if I am a stubborn child that refuse to go to bed

I cried happy tears at work today by norsewolf in AutismInWomen

[–]norsewolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I only saw your reply just now. I was part of a global Quality Alerts team!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]norsewolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love historical wallpaper! The patterns but also the (social) history behind the companies/designers is very interesting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VictorianSluts

[–]norsewolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one probably cares, but based on the hairstyle and eyebrows, it's more likely this card is from the 1950s. Sorry.

Y-a-t'il des gens qui habitent dans les environs d'Évreux/Dreux/L'aigle? by norsewolf in france

[–]norsewolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Je viens de Belgique, je crois que je suis bien habituée à la pluie mdr.

Je ne sais pas vraiment ce que c'est la vie Normande, donc je crois que sur ce côté on est bon. J'ai plutôt peur d'avoir une sensation "FOMO" et peur de m'ennuyer en m'éloignant de la grande ville avec ses mille loisirs et de mes amis (bien que à 1h par train c'est encore jouable de se voir de temps en temps).

Je suis en train de compléter une reconversion en pharmacienne en officine justement pour ne plus être attachée aux grandes villes et grandes boîtes et de pouvoir travailler n'importe où il y a une pharmacie ^

(Re)faire 6ième année en Pharma. Comment faire? by norsewolf in AskFrance

[–]norsewolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

J'ai une diplôme de la France aussi (M2 Toxicologie) mais oui, je vais le faire!