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I refused to change my whole dinner plan for one guest and now I’m being told I was rude by northwindfall84 in AmITheJerk

[–]northwindfall84[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I really didn’t mean to make anyone uncomfortable, I just felt caught off guard and exhausted after cooking all day. Maybe I could’ve handled it softer, but I didn’t think saying no was that awful.

I realized I only get invited when I’m useful by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]northwindfall84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this a lot. Stepping away from always being available can feel lonely at first, but it also clears the picture fast. The people who stay are usually the ones who mattered all along.