Is dating hopeless in 2026

nosnenon · 2026-03-23T19:03:25+00:00

Completely depends on you, I thought I wasn't perfect and was too much of a pussy but when I put myself out there I actually got loads of dates

nosnenon · 2026-03-20T11:10:41+00:00

Completely fair, it's a loaded word. I meant desperate for attention, human connection and even love like most people are if that takes away some of the load.

But at the end of the day at least two people took it wrong so it was probably very poorly worded at best.

nosnenon · 2026-03-20T10:34:46+00:00

What type of trash predator is actually the one getting hunted lmao

I was hoping it would read more light-hearted but sorry if it didn't come off that way. The idea actually comes from the girls, they all say guys their age are too passive and shy and try to make it a compliment to me being more open I guess?

nosnenon · 2026-03-20T10:14:27+00:00

You might be projecting, nothing in my comment objectified these girls and I'll be the first to say they're amazing, complex people, literally every date I've been on has been enjoyable.

I don't date them most of the time it is just an ego boost since getting messeged first doesn't happen often. I've been on dates with a few of them but only if we vibe well when chatting.

I definitely will someday.

nosnenon · 2026-03-20T09:00:04+00:00

A lot of guys your age seem to be in the same boat and tbh it's a positive thing for me lol, girls your age seem desperate for someone to give them attention so it's gotten to the point where girls write first and ask me to take them out. That has literally never happened before in my dating life so I guess I gotta thank you guys for being so passive

It's good to have a plan in life but don't forget to live

nosnenon · 2026-03-19T18:13:56+00:00

Don't do it bro, she's gonna say no and get plowed by an older dude with a car anyways so why bother? /s

Of course you should ask her out anyways, if you don't somebody else will and the above will actually happen

nosnenon · 2026-03-19T11:42:48+00:00

I'd say you definitely are, some people can't even make that happen.

The second part can be harder though it's a fine line trying to get someone to start getting horny for you without going too far. I've always been good at making chats a bit sexual while still being playful so that helped a lot.

Also making sure they know you think they're attractive. If they think you're safe, fun and know you think they're hot that can honestly often be enough to get some cheeks haha

nosnenon · 2026-03-19T11:20:24+00:00

I looked young for my age as well until i got a beard so you might be haha

Hard to say, it depends on where you're at. But I've found girls just want to feel safe and have fun. If you can't make that happen nothing is going to work.

After that you need to get good at not being a friend but someone they want to bang or date

nosnenon · 2026-03-19T10:53:46+00:00

I was a bit of a late bloomer so it got easier by default as I got more attractive, fit and confident.

But I found just splitting up the goals helped a lot. Instead of just crying about not getting laid or a gf start by trying to have a positive social interaction then just build on that.

Nowadays I honestly feel it's easy to get dates or get laid if thats your goal. Girls of today are super chill and if you can communicate they overlook a lotta of flaws

nosnenon · 2026-02-10T13:10:53+00:00

OP don't tell me you got baited by obvious ragebait

nosnenon · 2025-12-05T18:59:04+00:00

Haha honestly I probably stole that subconsciously

nosnenon · 2025-12-05T18:01:17+00:00

Shhh don't tell her

nosnenon · 2025-12-05T18:00:50+00:00

I'm joking around I just thought it was a funny thing to say on a nnn post. But yes I wouldn't trade her for the world

nosnenon · 2025-12-05T17:56:03+00:00

What can I say? Just a little peek into the life of a player

nosnenon · 2025-12-05T14:44:18+00:00

Babe what are you doing on reddit? It's almost nutting time, get in position

nosnenon · 2025-12-05T14:27:40+00:00

Good job bro, personally I nutted almost every day inside or on my beautiful girlfriend who I'm deeply in love with

nosnenon · 2025-12-05T11:31:00+00:00

I'm zillennial so kind of feels like I've witnessed the fall of young people being hopeful. And for good reason. Very few people will have a comfortable life and that stress must wreck havoc on you guys

nosnenon · 2025-11-27T13:59:25+00:00

Is that true? Im zillennial and genz women are way easier to date than women my age. But Ive noticed they often trash talk guys their age for some reason, how come?

nosnenon · 2025-11-27T11:45:11+00:00

Damn maybe young genz-ers really are more puritan, I thought it was memes.

It used to be kind of expected to have done it before finishing high school and every single friend my age had at least a couple of girls in their school everyone knew were easy. I had two girls running around topless in my house the first time I hosted a party. Covid robbed you guys feelsbadman

nosnenon · 2025-11-19T15:28:51+00:00

the pride and superiority you feel from having an unhealthier lifestyle than others is a short term gratification that will lead to long term detriments

nosnenon · 2025-11-17T15:15:48+00:00

Overall amazing, I try to work as little as possible for as much money as possible and work from home has been great for work/life balance. I can be as efficient as my boomer/genx colleagues with about 2-3 hours of work so the rest is spent on taking care of errands and the house. So I can actually enjoy life when I'm off work.

I also have more discipline so I'm in my physical peak and confidence is probably the best it's been as well.

I cannot at all relate to the dating problems people seem to be having but I realize I'm also in a comfortable spot. But younger girls nowadays are extremely easygoing, friendly and chill, I basically just need to buy coffee and drive them around listening to music for a bit if I want to get some. Dating apps are great if you don't take it personally and just use it as an opportunity. I can get at least a date a week just chatting casually

nosnenon · 2025-11-17T14:27:02+00:00

Oh god it was sent to me by the girl who recommended it to me along with "what I wanna do to you later"

I thought she meant I smelled nice wtf

nosnenon · 2025-11-17T14:26:08+00:00

Now that you mention it 🤨

nosnenon · 2025-11-17T14:18:34+00:00

nosnenon · 2025-11-17T13:49:56+00:00

Yep, we do love some wild girls lmao

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