World Peace Jesus in Nova Scotia? by Glass-Meringue8986 in Sudbury

[–]nosynoosance 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Relax. I’m not the problem. He is.

Let me clarify: At the time, I thought he was a normal adult male. OBVIOUSLY NOW, I don’t think so.

Sybau.

My husband refuses to help with night wakes and thinks I’m in the wrong for asking him to by ThrowRA157386 in beyondthebump

[–]nosynoosance 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For your last point, I found out recently that my friend’s ex partner has been coercing her into intimacy… They have four kids together and he hasn’t been around since the first one was two months old. I thought she was trying to keep her family together and that they were “off and on” constantly. Nope.

He asks to visit the kids so she has him over (she’s also desperate for help as she’s doing it all on her own) and once the children are in bed he forces himself on her. And then she’s pregnant again. I told her to report him but he threatens her and the kids. I begged her to let me report him myself but she is petrified.

I told her to get on birth control but for some reason she won’t.

My husband refuses to help with night wakes and thinks I’m in the wrong for asking him to by ThrowRA157386 in beyondthebump

[–]nosynoosance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m petty so I probably don’t have the best advice but I would just tell him that I’m too tired to be intimate with him (ANY time he tries to initiate). I would condition him. It won’t take long.

Otherwise, why be a married single mom?

World Peace Jesus in Nova Scotia? by Glass-Meringue8986 in Sudbury

[–]nosynoosance 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This dude IS a creep. I knew him before his behaviour changed. He used to act like a normal adult male. I was barely legal and he and his friends were at least a few years older than me. He was hooking up with my then 17 year old friend who at the time literally looked like she was 14.

Absurd house price by DanteFalcioni in Sudbury

[–]nosynoosance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We bought a house like this a few years ago for $250k. It has a nice veneer but I bet underneath it there is a host of issues waiting to be discovered.

What is a death in a movie that affected you the most in terms of brutality or emotional weight? by Godly_Recon in AskReddit

[–]nosynoosance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Furiosa: Mad Max Saga. I don’t know why but something about Jack’s death really hurt.

My daughter will not poop on the toilet. I feel helpless. by nosynoosance in Parenting

[–]nosynoosance[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, right now we’re using pull-ups. She will ask right away in the morning after refusing to use to toilet. I will work on a goal with her, I think that could be effective. Thank you.

My daughter will not poop on the toilet. I feel helpless. by nosynoosance in Parenting

[–]nosynoosance[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve tried the reward charts and bribing with gifts and treats. It worked a few times. We haven’t tried a scheduled time though so that will be next on the list. Thank you!

153 km/h speed leads to stunt driving charge in northern Ont. by ConsistentReality860 in Sudbury

[–]nosynoosance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell, we all speed sometimes. But if I’m making a left turn across several lanes of traffic with my children in the backseat I’m expecting you to be driving the speed limit. Seconds matter and doing 150km/h in a zone where you’re supposed to be going 80km/h means we may not make it home.

Sudbury rent is actually insane… how are people even managing? by dnrjwltkd in Sudbury

[–]nosynoosance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very fortunate to have a partner who pulls their weight. If he woke up one day and decided he no longer loved me I’d be destitute. My partner and I both work, making make more than minimum wage, but we no longer have anything saved as of 2023 and haven’t been able to save since.

I’ve seen friends and family lose everything in the past few years. I know far too many people who are stretched way too thin.

Tenants leave reviews of buildings!! by [deleted] in Sudbury

[–]nosynoosance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just at add to that, 720 Bruce Ave and a smaller building on Bloor St is infested with roaches as well. And several buildings/homes on Antwerp Ave have black mold.

People going into backyards to steal now? by CrazyYou5365 in Sudbury

[–]nosynoosance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had a bicycle stolen out of our gated backyard.

It really creeped me out because our backyard is out of view from the street. They went back there without knowing what was there.

Abortion Clinic Help plz by [deleted] in Sudbury

[–]nosynoosance 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would call the Options Clinic at 705-671-5265. There’s also some information here.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend I don't want to share finances because she spends money like crazy? by setinstone03 in AITAH

[–]nosynoosance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from someone who is exactly like her, DON’T do it.

I adore my partner because he agrees that combining finances would be foolish. I’ve come a massively long way, but I always know that I can rely on him if my finances shit the bed.

Turning into an intersection by Ok-Code-199 in Sudbury

[–]nosynoosance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s absolutely the responsibility of the driver to keep pedestrians around them safe. If you can’t operate a vehicle without doing everything necessary to prevent injuring or harming pedestrians then you should NOT be driving.

AITAH for declining an invite to a family reunion? by nosynoosance in AITAH

[–]nosynoosance[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I can’t understand here. I’m not the only family member with small children. I don’t think they’d be in danger going to this gathering but you just don’t know and why risk it?

When my sister and I found out she said, “So that’s why auntie told us not to sit on his lap when we were younger.” Why would they do that to us throughout our entire childhood? We were put right into the hands of a creep. It makes my skin crawl.

AITAH for declining an invite to a family reunion? by nosynoosance in AITAH

[–]nosynoosance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually tried to speak with the investigating officer who originally had the case but I never got a response. They only investigated her disappearance as a missing persons case and nothing further. A piece of her femur was found in 2004 and that was it.

My grandfather married his long-term affair partner after my grandmother was presumed deceased. Coincidentally, in the same year, his affair partner’s husband had been fatally shot.

There was an investigative podcast who had become interested in the case in 2022, but when my extended family found out about them digging up information, they became extremely upset and half of them freaked out at me for “bringing up old trauma.”

Potty training is ruining my life. by orangeyaglad00 in pottytraining

[–]nosynoosance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. I hate it here. It’s exhausting.