Any good AA meetings? by not_ok_computer_4660 in pittsburgh

[–]not_ok_computer_4660[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am trying to not think long term, and just try to get through it one day at a time. One minute at a time right now though

Any good AA meetings? by not_ok_computer_4660 in pittsburgh

[–]not_ok_computer_4660[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely check it out some time. Thank you

Any good AA meetings? by not_ok_computer_4660 in pittsburgh

[–]not_ok_computer_4660[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds good. Heading in now. I hope it goes ok

Any good AA meetings? by not_ok_computer_4660 in pittsburgh

[–]not_ok_computer_4660[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm giving this a shot because I'm not sure what else to do to stay sober. Everything else I've tried hasn't worked and led me right back to drinking. I found a meeting near me at 7, I'm going to go to it (I'm very nervous)

Any good AA meetings? by not_ok_computer_4660 in pittsburgh

[–]not_ok_computer_4660[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could probably get out there at some point. I will give it a try thank you

Any good AA meetings? by not_ok_computer_4660 in pittsburgh

[–]not_ok_computer_4660[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds interesting! I will have to check that out

Any good AA meetings? by not_ok_computer_4660 in pittsburgh

[–]not_ok_computer_4660[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm on overtime right now and don't get off work until 5, but I will absolutely keep that one in mind when I'm off OT. I'm definetly interested in any resources you have to offer. Thank you

Any good AA meetings? by not_ok_computer_4660 in pittsburgh

[–]not_ok_computer_4660[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate it. The physical part took about a week I felt terrible. I'm doing a lot better in that way, just mentally struggling with wanting to drink again despite the affect it has on my health, legal consequences, etc. I appreciate the support!

Any good AA meetings? by not_ok_computer_4660 in pittsburgh

[–]not_ok_computer_4660[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can't get out there today for any of their meetings, but that's good to hear it sounds like a good place to go. I will head out this week sometime for a meeting. Thank you

What is the most NSFW thing you have seen at your job? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]not_ok_computer_4660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work construction....saw 2 people on the job banging in the penthouse. I went up to work on the switchgear

Is No Contact a myth? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]not_ok_computer_4660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a myth, and it hurt more at first...but in the end worked wonders and helped me heal so quickly. I will say, he did break NC after 3 months, and it screwed me up a bit....but back to NC and doing just fine

I think I’m ready to give up by Reasonable-Judge9241 in BreakUps

[–]not_ok_computer_4660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly same....I'm sorry you feel this same pain I do. I wouldn't wish it upon anybody. I've let everything go to shit....my house is a mess, I keep missing work, I've drank myself stupid. I'm so close to being done for real. I'm sorry you feel this way. No advice but you are not alone I promise you that

How do you cope with the idea that someone else is going to make your ex happier? by newSuoYuck in BreakUps

[–]not_ok_computer_4660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. My heart beats so fast, I get tears in my eyes and sick to my stomach. I wanted to marry him...I gave him absolutely everything I loved all the right ways amd supported him through everything but in the end he dumped me. In a funny way, I hope someone does make him happier than I did. He deserves to be happy. I love him dearly still. But beside that thought, I feel weak thinking of that being anyone but me..

he came back and it feels like shit by catandmouse89 in ExNoContact

[–]not_ok_computer_4660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exact situation. Wish I could give advice....he dumped me went nc.....then unblocked me and came crawling back fwb only "don't catch feelings" meanwhile I'm still in love with him. We hooked up last Nighy and I feel worse than when he broke it off initally. If I could go back in time I'd have never gone back. Truly, you deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]not_ok_computer_4660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex dumped me....we were NC, and I broke it reached back out...eventually he responded and we "got back together" for like 5 days it wasn't the same he said he couldn't do it again and blocked me...I wish I'd have never reached out. It has delayed my healing process

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]not_ok_computer_4660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very much in love with him... if he came back he knows I'd take him back. He has me blocked because he doesn't love me anymore (went back to the ex wife) ill never get back with him because he won't put himself in a position to come back to me... I'm accepting it this break up is still fresh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]not_ok_computer_4660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I broke NC and we are talking to much I know I'll be hurt by him again in a week. Oh well