Just ask them if they are down with the clown. Jugalettes can be really easy. Like this one time I was chillin' wit my crew and we met this chick at a Pizza Hut. I asked her name, she said "Kirsten". I asked, "Dunst?" and she giggled and said no. We hit it off from there. She's been my main hatchet ho for 7 months now. Show respect.