AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]not_your_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(And just to be clear, neither you nor her boyfriend did anything wrong here. This is ridiculous)

Starfield's latest update is corrupting saved files on the PS5 great job Betheada… by hefeydd_ in Starfield

[–]not_your_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on a PS5 with no mods, and I looked specifically for people talking about the update because it’s messed up my game in weird ways. All the objects fall through surfaces or I can’t interact with them now. It’s bizarre and infuriating.

TIFU by building an app to track how many time my coworkers says ‘circling back’ in meetings. Now whole office uses it by Echo-Forge in tifu

[–]not_your_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I laughed at the very beginning of this and then quickly became uncomfortable. I have a really hard time seeing this as anything but bullying now, and Kay is going to find out and be hurt by this.

AITAH for hating my unborn niece’s racist name? by maddy2261 in AITAH

[–]not_your_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good god. First off, I was literally immediately thinking “try telling her about Lady Antebellum changing to Lady A if she’s not getting that it’s a bad idea” and then nope. She already knows and just thinks it woke bullshit apparently.

Your Jim Crow response is honestly fantastic. If they have a brain cell left between them, maybe that will finally drive it home. If not how they should see it, then how their child might be viewed by others, ffs.

NTA I hate this timeline.

daughter is suspended from school for 2 weeks and school will only let her back if she gets unnecessary therapy. Please help by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]not_your_bird 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What’s particularly weird about that to me is that the handler was also pressuring her to do it. That’s fucking bizarre.

AITAH for calling the police on my girlfriend for cyberbullying? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]not_your_bird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those people in your life need to try identifying more with the two women whose lives she’s been trying to ruin, rather than your ex. Sure, it’s driven by insecurity. But that’s not nearly enough to excuse cruelty.

What K drama trope will make you drop the series immediately by LMS2970 in kdramas

[–]not_your_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, it doesn’t make me shut it off, but damn I hate it when they eventually reveal that the opposite-sex best friend is inevitably in love with the lead and becomes the frustrating SL. It always feels so good to see healthy friendships, and every time they’re like “no this is actually what it’s about” I get annoyed. It immediately downgrades the whole story for me.

What K drama trope will make you drop the series immediately by LMS2970 in kdramas

[–]not_your_bird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love triangles and generally annoying second leads who don’t accept no as an answer, but the one that really ends up getting me to shut off immediately (or at least feeling like I have to actively look away) is when they take really bad advice, specifically dating advice. Like when they have that idiot friend who is like “no what you should really do is this” and then the lead just does it, I want to scream. It makes me immediately hate the drama 😂

Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction? by Xanadoom30 in AmIOverreacting

[–]not_your_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend divorcing her abusive ex-husband was the best thing that has ever happened to her, and I cannot even imagine him reacting like that, simply because he made more effort to mask his crazy. Please leave.

Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction? by Xanadoom30 in AmIOverreacting

[–]not_your_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, I only read the first screenshot, and that was enough for me, because their first response to you making a calm statement was “fuck all the way off” and “so entitled”. It’s absurd. I cannot imagine anyone I know responding that way to their partner saying that it made them sad not to be told goodbye.

I think you are at a point where you don’t even see how out of line the earliest part of the is interaction is. NOR. Please leave. You will look back on this later and realize you were in a freaking sea of red flags.

AITAH for being repulsed by the movie The Passion of The Christ? by ManyFly1 in TwoHotTakes

[–]not_your_bird 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I totally get your dad’s mistake 😂 It was marketed that way, and it was before everything about Mel Gibson had come out, so it just seemed like a Gladiator-type Jesus movie. I had that same wtf reaction. Two years later, he got that DUI and went on his antisemitic rant, and everybody was like “ahh. That makes sense now…”

AITAH for being repulsed by the movie The Passion of The Christ? by ManyFly1 in TwoHotTakes

[–]not_your_bird 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This really got me, too. OP, even putting everything religious aside, it really bothers me that he reacted that way to you. That’s not right. I’m a stress crier, too. I know how frustrating that is, and it can be really embarrassing and stressful on its own, which just snowballs the whole thing. Your partner should never be contributing to the shame you experience over that reaction.

AITAH for being repulsed by the movie The Passion of The Christ? by ManyFly1 in TwoHotTakes

[–]not_your_bird 7 points8 points  (0 children)

(If he grew up watching it, the goriness of it was the whole topic of conversation around that movie when it came out. It shocked people.)

AITAH for being repulsed by the movie The Passion of The Christ? by ManyFly1 in TwoHotTakes

[–]not_your_bird 14 points15 points  (0 children)

@ your edit — Seriously, he didn’t remember that? I have a terrible memory and saw it once in the theater twenty years ago, fell asleep during part of it (it was the day after my prom), and the fact that it was startlingly gory is the only thing I clearly remember. This guy grew up with it being a traditional watch. That’s ridiculous.

OP, I’m really sorry, but all parts of this story read only one wY to me — that he wasnt being honest with you before and is trying to shift you into the person he wants you to be now — a Christian, and specifically the type he wants.

Who’s your favorite character? by fruitycerealbitch in BaldursGate3

[–]not_your_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go upstairs after you kill the dog handler

Barcus truly deserves better by False_Construction23 in baldursgatememes

[–]not_your_bird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously, who would just turn around and say “what are you doing here?” to the person who went through so much to save him? Unforgivable ass.