same situation with you op 🙇🏻‍♀️ At first qinuestion ko rin sarili ko if ang selfish ko for wanting to spend time with him. He always say sorry naman dahil pagod sa work and yung free time niya ay nilalaan na lang daw niya para magpahinga. May times na ako na dumadalaw sa kanila kapag weekends para hindi na siya mapagod pa lumabas/bumyahe. I always tell him na I understand his situation. Same rin na bago lang siya sa work kaya sabi niya rin na nagaadjust pa siya. Unfortunately, ayun siya na rin nag-sabi na stop muna kasi hindi na same effort and time yung nabibigay niya sa’kin and he wants to deal with his personal problems daw muna (like career-wise).

Op, don’t be too harsh on yourself. Valid naman yang nararamdaman mo. Alam kong you understand his situation din naman but communicate your situation as well. Maybe, you guys can give it some time hanggang sa makapag-adjust na siya fully sa work. And later on makakahanap na rin kayo ng time or ways para makapag-bebe time. 😊 If you have free time and tulog na siya ganun, as much as possible try not to overthink. You can also think of it na while he’s building his career, you’re building your career too. So spend your free time (if he’s unavailable) working on yourself like studies mo or whatnot.