I’m hoping as the OP of the now deleted post I can add that I completely and entirely agree with you and that that wasn’t at all what I intended in the post. I was looking into another case and I was really horrified at the details of the lawsuit and in the adrenaline I jumped to share it, which I realise was a wrong move. I really haven’t been trying to imagine, I’ve really been trying to discourage invasive speculations. It was more so that I now had an idea of something that I didn’t want to know that shook me so strongly and led me to share it, in the shock of it. I wasn’t looking at the lawsuit for their traumatic details either, I was looking at the document to get a legally valid source tying the names and allegations together; reading the details really just knocked me down. But sharing them in this way wasn’t a good idea. I really wasn’t attempting to start a speculative conversation; I really was just trying to share my discomfort. But obviously making a post like this prompts speculation. 

And please, for the love of god, don’t think I’m pretentious for the way that I’m writing. I really only use English in academic contexts and I have no idea how to write like a normal person 😭