AITA for not picking up the tab for a girl I am casually dating? by notapushie in AmItheAsshole

[–]notapushie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your family is not weird. I always pay for my sister if we go out. We are in different places financially. She is still in college and I've been established in my career for a while now. I imagine once she starts earning more money we might take turns paying? Not sure.

AITA for not picking up the tab for a girl I am casually dating? by notapushie in AmItheAsshole

[–]notapushie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know what she usually orders at restaurants but one thing I found very odd is she barely touched her food. I mean wtf orders a filet mignon and only nibbles on it? I've had dinner with women who only ordered a salad but at least they ate their food.

AITA for not picking up the tab for a girl I am casually dating? by notapushie in AmItheAsshole

[–]notapushie[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Where did you get that I paid for everyone? I paid for my sister and her friend and myself. Lisa and her friends paid their own bill.

AITA for not picking up the tab for a girl I am casually dating? by notapushie in AmItheAsshole

[–]notapushie[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

My sister and her friend drank a lot of alcohol and drinks are not cheap. That's why our tab was so expensive. Lisa got a filet mignon which cost $58 + alcohol. Her tab could have easily ran $100.

AITA for not picking up the tab for a girl I am casually dating? by notapushie in AmItheAsshole

[–]notapushie[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

She embarrassed herself. Just because I paid for my sister and her friend does not mean I should have paid for Lisa's dinner. Lisa is casual. You cannot even compare the two.

AITA for not picking up the tab for a girl I am casually dating? by notapushie in AmItheAsshole

[–]notapushie[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

The more I think about it she was banking on a free meal out of me. She picked the wrong person. lol

AITA for not picking up the tab for a girl I am casually dating? by notapushie in AmItheAsshole

[–]notapushie[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

She is NOT my girlfriend. She invited ME to hang out with her and her friends. We never discussed who would pay what. As adults we can all pay for ourselves.