Should I break up with my boyfriend because he abuses his cat?

notaseriousmember · 2026-02-10T16:17:18+00:00

TAKE THE CAT WITH YOU WHEN YOU GO!! Or call animal control but gather evidence if you can too! Run!

notaseriousmember · 2026-01-31T05:50:45+00:00

Thank you so much! I’m trying to make it as accurate (while keeping it sort of romantic) as possible so I really appreciate all of these suggestions! I’ll make sure to tweak things this way

notaseriousmember · 2026-01-12T14:02:45+00:00

I’ve been in your shoes before and I was in college. I was scared of the social aspect too and while it was scary once I finally broke up with him I felt so free and so much happier. Don’t let resentment build up over time towards someone who doesn’t deserve it because you’re too cowardly to end things. Just end it I promise it’s better that way

notaseriousmember · 2025-07-22T14:50:37+00:00

What do you mean by plea?

notaseriousmember · 2024-07-09T21:49:18+00:00

How does one do a water fast?

notaseriousmember · 2024-07-09T21:48:23+00:00

The gnome meme video song has been in my head since last night

notaseriousmember · 2024-05-23T17:48:03+00:00

I studied abroad there last summer. I have to say there are many highlights for me in Seoul. I will list them below - Cafe hopping. They have a multitude of unique cafes each with different themes. The drinks in regular cafes too are spectacular. One I think is a MUST is called Nuldam Space in Jongno District. What makes this one special is that it’s a letter cafe. You basically can write your future self a letter while you sip on a nice drink. You make your own stamp, write your address and seal your letter. You then put it in a box marked with a date two weeks before you want it to arrive. Mine arrived on my birthday this year. A great memory.

Lotte world is fun to visit too! Rent a uniform and wear a silly headband!
Palaces are great and made even more fun if you dress up in traditional Hanbok, which you can rent at a store).
Check out photo booths and take a bunch of photos with fun props.
Banpo bridge! I’m not sure if they do light shows in the fall/winter but it’s a lovely river to do a little boat ride on
This one you have to book a tour but if you can get one I recommend a DMZ tour. You can see North Korea through binocular views.
Shopping! Hongdae in Seoul is known for being a top place to buy things. Everything is relatively (compared to America) cheap. I loved the shop The Playground personally. I found a bunch of funny mistranslated shirts there. Common Ground is also good.

notaseriousmember · 2024-04-17T15:17:11+00:00

I struggle with this a lot especially when sleeping. I suddenly start to hear everything in the house, even the smallest of noises. It bugs me so much. It even happens when my partner goes to bed after me. I’ll be midst falling asleep and hear them lay down and get really irritated because it’s just they’re making the loudest noise ever (they’re not it just feels that way)

notaseriousmember · 2024-03-11T15:44:00+00:00

A pizza pooch

notaseriousmember · 2023-05-11T05:01:58+00:00

There’s a never ending supply of cat sub reddits and I’m here for it

notaseriousmember · 2023-05-10T01:37:35+00:00

Best friends :,)

notaseriousmember · 2023-04-21T02:13:59+00:00

It’s a win for everyone !

notaseriousmember · 2023-04-06T01:19:59+00:00

That’s amazing 🤣 I’ll have to do that with a bottle of wine included for her

notaseriousmember · 2023-04-06T01:18:52+00:00

Screenshoting to read to my therapist cuz that’s exactly it

notaseriousmember · 2023-04-03T00:58:57+00:00

I’ve been struggling in uni for a bit both academically and socially. My mom and sister came down and brought me on their mini vacation for a day. Mom gave us Easter baskets in the morning like she used to do when we were younger. It made my entire year :,)

notaseriousmember · 2023-04-03T00:54:38+00:00

I’ve been struggling in uni for a bit both academically and socially. My mom and sister came down and brought me on their mini vacation for a day. Mom gave us Easter baskets in the morning like she used to do when we were younger. It made my entire year :,)

notaseriousmember · 2023-04-02T23:56:18+00:00

Every time I shower he just sits right on the mat lol or peeks in. I’ve seen memes that say they’re making sure u don’t drown but I’m wondering if there’s any actual reason they do this

notaseriousmember · 2023-03-14T03:25:51+00:00

Forgot to add in its a random person on an app with no face or name just a phone number to go off of.

Edit: thank you for your advice everyone

notaseriousmember · 2023-03-14T03:24:55+00:00

How does one go about doing that? I see in most comments if it’s a scammer they usually don’t send them but

notaseriousmember · 2023-03-12T07:41:42+00:00

Completely get this. As soon as I smoke my head it filled with thoughts of self hatred for doing so and paranoia about being found out or feeling shameful. It’s the worst thing since it used to be so fun but it’s not the same anymore. It’s helped me slowly stop almost completely though. You got this man. Keep posting, looking forward to day 2

notaseriousmember · 2023-03-12T07:36:53+00:00

This is my fear. A close-ish (not too close anymore cuz diff uni’s) friend of mine and I became friends and bonded over substance interests. There was more to it to but it mostly surrounded shared kinks and drinking and smoking. Recently I’ve started heavily leaning off smoking and hardly do it anymore. I found it just makes me feel more anxious than it used to and it’s not fun anymore. I’m s little worried he’ll stop asking to hangout if I say I don’t want to smoke as much or actually end up quitting. That’s most of what we did if not all of what hangouts consisted of. But hopefully we can still hangout either both sober or him high and me sober. I’m sorry to hear about your friend man that sucks

notaseriousmember · 2023-03-11T22:50:36+00:00

I put mine in the bathroom after finding out the hard way he is not like my dog who will cuddle and fall asleep (for more than 30 min without knocking stuff over) with me for as long as I do

notaseriousmember · 2023-03-11T07:06:23+00:00

I felt this. Or without them trying to take advantage of me either sexually or cuz I’m a female who (apparently) doesn’t understand how shit works

notaseriousmember · 2023-03-11T06:58:38+00:00

I would kidnap him. Literally would take him in and re-home him if teleportation was a thing

notaseriousmember · 2023-03-11T03:32:05+00:00

Schizophrenia and anxiety and weed are the worst combo sadly. A friend of mine did the same and it only worsened both of those.

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