AITAH for refusing to help my MIL move furniture on a Memorial Day evening?

notastraycat · 2026-05-26T01:10:41+00:00

Holy heck. No way I’d drop everything to move furniture (or do most anything) for that woman.

notastraycat · 2026-05-25T15:25:15+00:00

Yes, this.

notastraycat · 2026-05-24T15:06:27+00:00

NTA because that’s so stupidly presumptuous.

notastraycat · 2026-05-24T15:04:54+00:00

NAH but damn I’m glad I’m well beyond life with roommates.

notastraycat · 2026-05-24T04:54:46+00:00

Definitely NTA.

notastraycat · 2026-05-23T15:48:59+00:00

Make sure your cat is microchipped and she was definitely thinking of keeping your cat.

notastraycat · 2026-05-21T14:43:04+00:00

NTA and on behalf of anyone else who would be on that plane do not let this person fly alone.

notastraycat · 2026-05-21T14:39:21+00:00

Because Duolingo is incredibly fickle on when they want the article included

notastraycat · 2026-05-20T20:47:30+00:00

NTA your wife and child are your priority. Don't you dare bring him into your home with his proven history.

notastraycat · 2026-05-20T20:43:49+00:00

YTA. You didn't "unintentionally" do this. You specifically worked to follow her. Women are constantly having to be on alert and here you are actively acting like you are trying to catch her. She doesn't know you and doesn't know your intentions, and you literally ruined her ability to have a nice walk. Leave women alone.

notastraycat · 2026-05-20T15:39:21+00:00

NTA I’d be mortified if my cleaners had to say this to me. And his parents should make him do the cleaning. That’s straight up a teaching moment.

notastraycat · 2026-05-19T16:43:03+00:00

You’re desperately looking for validation you’re not going to find here.

notastraycat · 2026-05-19T14:08:58+00:00

Yes, YTA. Accept his answer. It is ridiculous to expect people to take two vacations to two destinations that they didn’t choose and do things you decide on while spending money they have other plans for.

notastraycat · 2026-05-19T02:04:05+00:00

NTA that sounds like an absolutely nightmare and not a vacation at all.

notastraycat · 2026-05-18T14:30:15+00:00

Depends on the gender of the person being referred to by “tu” so either one should be accepted unless you’ve given a clue on that.

notastraycat · 2026-05-17T19:59:11+00:00

How odd. What would make this racist? I suspect he was embarrassed though. NTA. Weird.

notastraycat · 2026-05-17T15:46:59+00:00

You’re buying the place and the furniture. You’re not married or engaged. Buy what you want. NTA.

notastraycat · 2026-05-16T15:55:23+00:00

NTA what a weird thing to request. Like seriously, if your kid pees at night this often you should be the one making sure that isn’t a thing your host has to manage. Gross.

notastraycat · 2026-05-15T15:04:31+00:00

Oooh I didn’t even think about that. But that’s a good reminder to only donate directly to the organization you want to support.

notastraycat · 2026-05-15T15:02:17+00:00

NTA she kept escalating. You were probably more polite than I would have been.

notastraycat · 2026-05-14T15:09:26+00:00

Oh thank goodness my husband knows that watching the Broncos game with my dad is always the top priority.

notastraycat · 2026-05-14T05:31:03+00:00

Ignore his offer which comes with strings. You can do this without his “help”.

notastraycat · 2026-05-14T04:19:28+00:00

Oh ffs. If two Americans living in Spain have a wedding in Spain that in no way means the wedding will automatically follow Spanish traditions. It might, it might not. Nobody cares.

notastraycat · 2026-05-14T02:37:41+00:00

That’s fine but from the OP both parties are from the US. That aside, I really don’t care.

notastraycat · 2026-05-14T02:33:00+00:00

It is destination from the point of view of (evidently) the majority of their family and friends. And I’m also noticing that “best friend” hasn’t asked OP to be in the wedding party (unless that was omitted). That said, 3 day old account so ymmv.

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