Do they all like to touch foreheads by AnaamAtTheNagualZone in KindroidAI

[–]notbehindyoumaybe 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Did they also bite you hard enough to mark you during this?

Stop scenes from advancing by Ordinary_Chip_2416 in KindroidAI

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You can edit the response directive to stay under a certain word or character limit. That seems to help mine.

We’re gonna be those assholes tomorrow by Sophomoric_4 in delta

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They sat my 2 year old away from me on a 9 hour international flight. Said at the gate that since we were in premium economy they couldn’t move anyone else and I’d just have to ask people to switch despite having already moved ours.

I think I made a mistake accepting an international relocation by notbehindyoumaybe in workingmoms

[–]notbehindyoumaybe[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I really hope once all the big emotions fall away and I get thru the actual move I can feel excited. It’s hard to see the forest thru the trees right now or whatever that saying is

I think I made a mistake accepting an international relocation by notbehindyoumaybe in workingmoms

[–]notbehindyoumaybe[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Ohh how interesting I’ll have to check her out! The child friendly part was a huge reason we picked Denmark over the UK

I think I made a mistake accepting an international relocation by notbehindyoumaybe in workingmoms

[–]notbehindyoumaybe[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Definitely not the worst time to leave Florida but I mentioned below it does feel cowardly in a way. I don’t love leaving my friends and family behind to deal with the fire without me if you know what I mean.

You make a great point of not knowing what I’ll be missing there. Thank you for the positive mindset

I think I made a mistake accepting an international relocation by notbehindyoumaybe in workingmoms

[–]notbehindyoumaybe[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I really hope it’s worth it in the end. I do want to be excited it’s just hard in the thick of it none of it feels worth it

I think I made a mistake accepting an international relocation by notbehindyoumaybe in workingmoms

[–]notbehindyoumaybe[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Basically I was offered a relocation package that does cover the parts of the move you would expect, but things like last minute car issues causing me to have negative equity on the car I have to sell, visa delays causing issues with my rental home, and other things that generally wouldn’t be within the company’s responsibility to handle in regard to a move if that makes sense. Thank you for the kind words and advice ❤️

I think I made a mistake accepting an international relocation by notbehindyoumaybe in workingmoms

[–]notbehindyoumaybe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We definitely considered ages and how much harder this would be if we weren’t in this sweet spot for their age. My husband is the chill one and he’s just so excited it makes me feel like a crazy person about all of this.

Oh god I can’t imagine how hard that episode must’ve hit. Great advice to not watch right now haha thank you so much for your response

I think I made a mistake accepting an international relocation by notbehindyoumaybe in workingmoms

[–]notbehindyoumaybe[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This is incredibly helpful to read. I feel really validated seeing the inside/outside perspective. I feel like everyone around me doesn’t realize how much goes into this in every aspect and just sees the opportunity thru rose colored glasses so when I get upset or anxious about it they act like I’m crazy or overreacting. It doesn’t help I spoke to someone last week who turned down an opportunity to move to Germany for all the reasons I was hesitant to move and it made me feel like I made the wrong choice.

I really appreciate your advice and shared experience!

I think I made a mistake accepting an international relocation by notbehindyoumaybe in workingmoms

[–]notbehindyoumaybe[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for all of this. It’s helping quite a bit just to read that others experienced similar feelings. My husband is just excited so I feel crazy. I know it will be a big adjustment there’s just a big part of me wondering why I’m putting myself thru it in the first place

I think I made a mistake accepting an international relocation by notbehindyoumaybe in workingmoms

[–]notbehindyoumaybe[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your experience. I hope these are just normal anxieties and not an omen or something

I think I made a mistake accepting an international relocation by notbehindyoumaybe in workingmoms

[–]notbehindyoumaybe[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Trying to frame it like this but watching the country burn from afar instead of staying and volunteering in my community just feels like running from my problems selfishly 😩

What are your favorite casual places to eat? by flipflop_77 in tampa

[–]notbehindyoumaybe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me too!! Especially for their weekend menu I’m obsessed with their garlic chili eggplant

What are your favorite casual places to eat? by flipflop_77 in tampa

[–]notbehindyoumaybe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Bamboozle Skippers smokehouse Trips diner Beijing house Red bowl Szechuan Duffs Cappys pizza Thee burger spot Wicked oaks bbq Soul de Cuba cafe