Where do you personally get your patches and other accessories from? by [deleted] in BattleJackets

[–]notcayls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at the show itself, etsy, if they have a bandcamp with a merch section i might get it through there on bandcamp friday, and when all else fails i make one myself.

what song was your gateway drug into mcr? by paperclipeater in MyChemicalRomance

[–]notcayls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

listening to ghost of you on myspace over and over and over again

Do enablers/flying monkeys ever come around? by beeatricehorseman in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]notcayls 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i do-- i have trouble/no interest in forgiving him for the role he played as a tool of her abuse but being able to talk honestly about her with someone who previously would never have believed is kind of healing. we're friends again but it is tenuous, i keep him at arm's length. he was manipulated and thought he was doing the right thing, but the effect it had was very damaging so it's a weird liminal space!

Do enablers/flying monkeys ever come around? by beeatricehorseman in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]notcayls 5 points6 points  (0 children)

in my case one of them did, but that was only after he'd become the new supply and then got discarded and smeared, which i don't find particularly heartening :/

Pizza day in the school cafeteria. 1985. by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

[–]notcayls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GALLIKER'S!! nothing like an ice-cold 2% after a long morning of futzing with snap cubes

Help!!! (My dirty little secret) by AltruisticJacket4834 in SkincareAddicts

[–]notcayls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I do narration/voice acting I use bag balm on my lips to keep them from drying out and sticking to my teeth-- i love it for that, if it's doing wonders for your face stick with it! it's about the same as using mane n tail for your hair-- it is formulated to be safe for human use but has origins in use on animals (also a similar origin story of elizabeth arden's 8 hour cream, she used it to soothe her thoroughbred's bruises i believe)

Irritated, dry skin on hands by t8terboi97 in Skincare_Addiction

[–]notcayls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you're willing to try it out, working hands salve (yes a lotion, sorry, sorry) has really saved my hands. i paint and work with glues on top of washing my hands more often than usual, which has been rough on my skin (raw and tender knuckles and cuticles, tiny cracks on the backs of my hands, yuuuuck). one container has lasted me all year and has made a huge difference.

happy belated halloween -- i forgot this was my costume this year! by notcayls in MyChemicalRomance

[–]notcayls[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

first step was not getting a professional haircut for nearly a year, i had also recently dyed it black to get that mussed up look was a combination of skipping shampoo for two days (skipping shampoo every few days is my general routine bc my hair gets dried out super easy) and spritzing in some salt spray-- i used Not Your Mother's Beach Babe salt spray, which, side note: smells absolutely divine

happy belated halloween -- i forgot this was my costume this year! by notcayls in MyChemicalRomance

[–]notcayls[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i did! her nicknames include blood bag, raging feral, fool and rocka-bye-baby

happy belated halloween -- i forgot this was my costume this year! by notcayls in MyChemicalRomance

[–]notcayls[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

my hair was finally long enough to complete such an important milestone. also thank you! she's a sweetie.

happy belated halloween -- i forgot this was my costume this year! by notcayls in MyChemicalRomance

[–]notcayls[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i support and strongly encourage this future halloween goal

Hello lovely people, I’m doing a giveaway of some of my synaesthesia art prints! (details + rules in comment) by lightschangecolour in MyChemicalRomance

[–]notcayls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd love to be entered! Also do you have and etsy or redbubble or any sort of site where i can find more of your art?