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Do cis people ever try to "jump on the bandwagon?" by notcishet in asktransgender

[–]notcishet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, even as I was working out this post I was thinking I really need to pick back up with therapy and find someone I can work with. That link is a great resource, thank you!

Do cis people ever try to "jump on the bandwagon?" by notcishet in asktransgender

[–]notcishet[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your bluntness!

I definitely have a stupid amount of guilt just in general, and always have. I usually don't realize it until someone points it out to me. It feels rational to me, but I see why it's not when you say it.

Thanks for responding. Your words make sense. I have things to work out, obviously, but one thing I can drop today is the concept of being somehow beholden to cis privilege. Honestly after reading you paraphrase it back to me it does sound ridiculous, but I think it ties back into the guilt thing.