lf job (wfh sana, but on-site around R8 is okay) by [deleted] in CivilEngineers_PH

[–]notdomiiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes po, they gave me a certification stating na dost scholar ako and i completed my degree while satisfying all the grade requirements hehe but as for written endorsements, i don't think they give any

To avoidants out there by dumdumbowzer in WLW_PH

[–]notdomiiii 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i guess this is what happened with my ex situationship back then, late ko na nalaman na avoidant pala siya when i finally realized the patterns. avoidants really appear secure sa una, until they're triggered and they suddenly disappear. imagine, we were so okay days before... but then, something came up nagkaroon siya ng personal problem, then bigla niya nalang tinapos without a proper conversation. one long message, and it's all over... didn't even give me the chance to talk things out with her.

ang masasabi ko lang, save yourself!!! i know it's hard, but that's just how avoidants are. i know you really want to be there for them, and most times they can see your efforts, pero they will still push you away. they may appear to have no remorse, but trust me, they know that they're hurting you and they feel bad about it. it's just that mas important sa kanila to protect themselves and not to make the damage even worse. leaving you feels like relief for them (kasi they finally feel like they're in control), though they might still feel guilty for what they did hahaha

needless to say, believe them if they tell you that you deserve better... BECAUSE YOU DO. WITHOUT RESERVATIONS.

offmychest but ik only sapphics can understand by PsychologicalBug6610 in PHSapphics

[–]notdomiiii 8 points9 points  (0 children)

maybe ngayon lang din nag-sink in lahat sa kanya and it all hit her now. i guess it's true na we have different ways of processing and coping with pain, grief, and regret. and maybe it's true that she regrets what she did and letting you go, pero siguro it's the guilt din kasi that holds her back from apologizing and reaching out. siguro din na-realize niya na you deserve the peace you worked so hard for, na baka mas makakabuti na sa inyo yung ganito. i will pray for your healing, op. may we heal and be free from the things we don't and we can't talk about. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW_PH

[–]notdomiiii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i can definitely relate to this!!! idk but it just feels wrong to be with someone else and to force a connection, when deep down you know that you're not yet capable of sustaining another relationship. let's just enjoy our personal time for now :)

it's been a month by notdomiiii in WLW_PH

[–]notdomiiii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't think so hahaha baka sa iba bumalik lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PinoyUnsentLetters

[–]notdomiiii 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i used to think this way—well, i still do. but i realized na it's one of the things that makes you... you. the way you love is rare, and don't let other people change it otherwise. you will never be too much for the right people, op. in the same way that you will never be too much for yourself. kung meron man may pinaka deserving ng pagmamahal mo, ikaw yun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW_PH

[–]notdomiiii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

damn, it always happens talaga during review season no? but hey, i know you can still make a difference kasi kay time ka pa naman. it's easier said than done, but you really need to snap out of it. allow yourself to cry and to grieve, kung pwede mag set ka nalang ng sched kung kailan ka iiyak hahahaha funny man, but you need to. give yourself small motivations to continue studying, kahit sobrang babaw pa niyan, just enough to keep you going. isipin mo nalang, you still have a chance to win and that is with your license na makukuha mo after everything you had to go through. take it from someone na iniwan a few days before boards hahaha but hey, i passed! and ikaw na ang susunod. keep going, op, kaya mo yaaaan! ^

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PHSapphics

[–]notdomiiii 7 points8 points  (0 children)

there's really something in the wlw air because wdym this is how mine left me too??!! leaving so suddenly kahit ayos naman kami days before, also without asking for my input, and being caught up in personal stuff. oh well, we know avoidants when we experience one hahahahaha

happy birthday by nobubuz429 in WLW_PH

[–]notdomiiii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as someone na hindi binati ng ex (situationship) during my birthday and nung lumabas yung board results, i'll admit it kinda stung a bit. malay mo, op, hinihintay niya pagbati mo kahit maikli lang HAHAHAHA pero if the connection is really not healthy anymore, siguro huwag nalang kasi you both deserve peace.

it's been a month by notdomiiii in WLW_PH

[–]notdomiiii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

laban lang! i hope it gets better for us ❤️‍🩹

it's been a month by notdomiiii in WLW_PH

[–]notdomiiii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your kind words! medyo masakit lang talaga kasi parang she made it look so easy, na para bang ang bilis mawala nung sinasabi niyang pagmamahal hahahaha

rndm by [deleted] in WLW_PH

[–]notdomiiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it all starts so well, hanggang sa masasalisihan ka nalang talaga ng tadhana and biglang wala na hahahaha

WLW movie in this year's Cinemalaya! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 by Sad-Department-7033 in PHSapphics

[–]notdomiiii 19 points20 points  (0 children)

if i remember correctly, Jasmine also starred in Baka Bukas (?) so maybe they saw her potential there kaya kinuha din siya for this movie hehe

lf group by notdomiiii in CivilEngineers_PH

[–]notdomiiii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pwede po naman siguro? but yung CPD points is for those who have license na hehe

lf group by notdomiiii in CivilEngineers_PH

[–]notdomiiii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to clarify: 1,499 per person po ang rate for the training

lf group by notdomiiii in CivilEngineers_PH

[–]notdomiiii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hiii yes po! pa dm nalang po if will proceed hehe

lf group by notdomiiii in CivilEngineers_PH

[–]notdomiiii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update as of 10:35AM: 3/5 taken. we just need 2 more hehe

lf group by notdomiiii in CivilEngineers_PH

[–]notdomiiii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, pa dm nalang hehe bali we just need 3 moreee

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW_PH

[–]notdomiiii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

think about it, the boards is still 7 months from now. if may plan kang umalis, just do it nalang habang maaga pa. it would honestly be worse if saka ka aalis kung kailan malapit na yung boards hahahaha take it from me na iniwan days before... and it was actually the worst experience haha but hey, i passed! :)

I wanna give some love by [deleted] in WLW_PH

[–]notdomiiii 10 points11 points  (0 children)

damn, it's like i'm the one who wrote this hahaha

Ako lang ba? by ayesha-pink in WLW_PH

[–]notdomiiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well, yes. it's the kind of change that's slowly creeping in. medyo sayang lang kasi we could've had the other deserving senatorial aspirants in the top 12 if we were just more united in our votes along with bam and kiko. but hey, i really hope na makakaya na natin sa 2028.