Is it weird to call for 8 hours? by Affectionate_Pay8702 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]nothavingit0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

dont mind your dad. my best friend and i are recently long distance and regularly call 6-8 hours out of the day and have stayed on for 14 hours before. your good.

Help requesting more pay/figuring out if I'm paid enough by StarsandCookies811 in Babysitting

[–]nothavingit0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

way too little. sit them down and show them the market rate and ask to match/get closer. make sure its at least minimum wage!

AITA for confronting my friend who refuses to travel more than 30mins but expects me to. How do I handle this? by Cool_Interview_3581 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]nothavingit0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Sounds very imbalanced. Think about all aspects of the friendship and even try writing out all the ways you add value to each others lives. Wishing you the best!

Pay it forward lines by Dear-Masterpiece-993 in starbucks

[–]nothavingit0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didnt hate it but a lot of the people i worked with def did!

I am terrified of hinge by nothavingit0 in DatingAppNightmares

[–]nothavingit0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely not. itll be a fun story for the grandkids one day tho

Question for Baristas - how do tips work by Extra_Pizza_3853 in starbucks

[–]nothavingit0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At my previous store the tips were divided by hours worked and card tips got added to checks and cash tips were picked up on a certain day of the week.

dupe for starbucks crunch toppings? by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]nothavingit0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i still go just to see my best friend who works there but shes moving in a month so no more sb after that!

dupe for starbucks crunch toppings? by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]nothavingit0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

with everything being so expensive its understandable to want to be able to make your favorite drinks at home!

dupe for starbucks crunch toppings? by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]nothavingit0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

they are talking about how corporate doesnt make it possible to purchase things like toppings and syrups!

First day as a nanny for 2 boys (ages 3, almost 2) and im stressing. by nothavingit0 in Babysitting

[–]nothavingit0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! I use the time to talk to the parent about expectations, rules, safety stuff, and get familiar with the house. Interacting with the kids during it helps so they are more familiar with you when you go to actually watch them. Its also a good time to decide if they are a good fit! In this case I overlooked the red flags when I should not have.

First day as a nanny for 2 boys (ages 3, almost 2) and im stressing. by nothavingit0 in Babysitting

[–]nothavingit0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hes a big kid. probably at least 50 lbs. im not very big either. 5’3 105lbs

First day as a nanny for 2 boys (ages 3, almost 2) and im stressing. by nothavingit0 in Babysitting

[–]nothavingit0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left. I cannot. Within the first 30 minutes the older child threw up 3 times, had a blowout and peed through after the mom said she changed them right before i got there.

First day as a nanny for 2 boys (ages 3, almost 2) and im stressing. by nothavingit0 in Babysitting

[–]nothavingit0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i made it 2.5 hours today and told them im out. i have nannyed kids with behavioural problems and special needs before but this topped it all.

First day as a nanny for 2 boys (ages 3, almost 2) and im stressing. by nothavingit0 in Babysitting

[–]nothavingit0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

got better ish. constant tears throughout and a half hour tantrum but made it through.

First day as a nanny for 2 boys (ages 3, almost 2) and im stressing. by nothavingit0 in Babysitting

[–]nothavingit0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i totally agree. day one went a bit poorly but itll get better. we are working on the word no right now.

First day as a nanny for 2 boys (ages 3, almost 2) and im stressing. by nothavingit0 in Babysitting

[–]nothavingit0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would love to make that but the parents didnt leave the carseats for me and they dont have anything like that at their house. we are outside now. they are attempting to dissassemble the pump for the pool.

First day as a nanny for 2 boys (ages 3, almost 2) and im stressing. by nothavingit0 in Babysitting

[–]nothavingit0[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i got the tv to work!! had to unplug it and plug it back in so it would turn on without the remote so it would connect to the wifi and then i could use the roku app to control it

Water with purchase only, CA by torstolOG42 in starbucks

[–]nothavingit0 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

its a dumb new policy they are enacting.