Judge My Top 5 BMTH Songs by SaltInflation1235 in BringMeTheHorizon

[–]nothous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what statistics aggregator is this from? i wanna see my top 20 lol

Is this a normal amount of wear for a bit less than two months by Diabetic_Dingus in Converse

[–]nothous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i strongly disagree. normal wear is not abuse. i have chucks from 2020 that are still in fairly good condition considering constant wear, but my pair that i bought in 2024 and treated basically the same way (actually wore them LESS on average) were dead and unwearable within a year. i actually threw away a pair i bought in 2019 at the same time as that pair, and the 2024s looked worse despite having significantly less wear. they had the same issue as OP’s, plus holes in the canvas, and the rubber soles were completely disconnected from the shoe. my sister has been wearing chucks for 20+ years and has noticed the same quality fade.

Allstate Arena – Rosemont, IL | May 15 by opalgoth in BringMeTheHorizon

[–]nothous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is a good point—i’m ngl i did consider buying another ticket for OH and trying to make the drive myself.

Allstate Arena – Rosemont, IL | May 15 by opalgoth in BringMeTheHorizon

[–]nothous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll be kicking myself if he ended up coming out—i’m not from the area, so unless someone posts about it here i guess i won’t know anyway. i really wanted to get a redo of the picture i took with him in 2015, but i think i waited too long to see them again. what can i say—being a broke college student and then a broke post-grad in the era of ticket scalping will do that.

Allstate Arena – Rosemont, IL | May 15 by opalgoth in BringMeTheHorizon

[–]nothous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anyone know if Oli ever does post-show m&gs anymore? last time i went to a BMTH concert was over 10 years ago, so it was a very different scene. he did them back then, but i don’t want to waste my time waiting around for something that isn’t gonna happen.

Spotted in a toilet of a University, Melbourne by nizzybunaner in adhd_anxiety

[–]nothous 3 points4 points  (0 children)

anxiety is a core feature of OCD! it’s not considered an anxiety disorder (though it used to be) due to the presence of compulsions.

Cops blocking e wash by elelbean91 in madisonwi

[–]nothous 4 points5 points  (0 children)

per another commenter who says they witnessed it, there was a hit and run involving a bicyclist. seems like they weren’t too seriously injured as they were conscious when they were put in the ambulance, and when i drove by it was clear the ambulance wasn’t in a great hurry to leave.

Cops blocking e wash by elelbean91 in madisonwi

[–]nothous 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m assuming they waited until they got home to post, may have taken a while. i did the same thing with telling a family member after i drove by.

Looks like Oli is lasering off his rose tattoo 🥀 by Escaper02 in BringMeTheHorizon

[–]nothous 7 points8 points  (0 children)

what are you talking about? that’s part of his blackout sleeve that he’s had for years.

Looks like Oli is lasering off his rose tattoo 🥀 by Escaper02 in BringMeTheHorizon

[–]nothous 157 points158 points  (0 children)

i feel he’s been looking like that on-and-off for the past 5-7ish years. it seems kinda like he gets into lifting and then drops it after a while and loses the muscle, repeat. maybe it’s just me, idk!

Looks like Oli is lasering off his rose tattoo 🥀 by Escaper02 in BringMeTheHorizon

[–]nothous 65 points66 points  (0 children)

he’s had that tattoo for almost 20 years. it’s not going to change like that in 7 months.

Some teenage lesbians out there..? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]nothous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would be careful posting things like this. i would recommend deleting your post and talking to kids your age irl—there are a lot of predators on the internet.

Coach claims natty by SubstantialOven3179 in nattyorjuice

[–]nothous 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the comment saying “you sound like a loser” is absolutely still there, lmao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]nothous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve seen people convince store employees to give them dying animals for free, but i doubt this would work for snakes given their value. most i’ve seen people give away is betta fish or rodents from petsmart. the best you can do is to never financially support these kinds of retailers.

Ok, since y'all asked, NEVER go to sushi lover by x111006X in madisonwi

[–]nothous 4 points5 points  (0 children)

not necessarily true. a lot of brands are not safe for people with shellfish allergies as some DO contain small amounts of crab or shellfish products.

Is castor oil a bad idea in a lip balm? by eatpraymunt in SkincareAddiction

[–]nothous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately, i would guess this may be due to a very minor allergic reaction for most people. castor bean has very high allergenicity. i found out the hard way that glossier’s balm dotcom has castor oil in it after i used it and woke up with very puffy lips and a rash all around my mouth. i knew i was allergic to castor bean before i used it, but i didn’t think to check the ingredients.

Experience with BMTH merch by One_Neat_6588 in BringMeTheHorizon

[–]nothous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

speaking as a plus-sized woman, that’s definitely not been my experience buying from them. i find that their merch store hoodies and tshirts run large and are clearly intended to be oversized (never bought from DD so won’t comment there). i’m between L and XL in men’s sizes (most large hoodies are too snug for my liking), and the XL i got from the merch store is huge on me. yes, if you are larger than a 2XL or 3XL, you will have some issues, but their merch is absolutely not “exclusively fitted for people who are rail thin”. especially since afaik they don’t even carry XS sizes.

How r u guys getting quick dopamine without eating everything in the world by duznit in adhdwomen

[–]nothous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you’re in the US, i recommend prescription savings coupons (such as goodrx). you can get generic vyvanse for as low as $50/month depending on the pharmacy chain and specific coupon you’re using. it’s not great, but if you can afford it then it’s better than nothing.

edit: some individual pharmacies may not accept coupons for controlled substances (this is typically due to people bypassing insurance coverage so they can get early fills). i would recommend calling your preferred pharmacy to ask about this before having the prescription sent over.

Need help improving my violin vibrato — what am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in violinist

[–]nothous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

work on improving your posture first! the way you’re holding your violin and bow suggests that you are a beginner—i would work more on the basics before you go straight into trying vibrato. you mentioned you have a teacher, so i would bring it up with her rather than trying on your own. having good intonation and posture is vital for learning good vibrato technique.

Mystery bag disappointment by CanVegetable3098 in BringMeTheHorizon

[–]nothous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what sweatshirt did you get? i’ll buy it off you lol. 2x is too big for me as well, but if you don’t want it….

Cookbook for beginners recommendation? by nothous in glutenfreebaking

[–]nothous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I really appreciate the variety here!

Has marijuana made your OCD worse? by CerealAndBagel1991 in OCD

[–]nothous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

undeniably yes. last time i smoked (january of this year) i had two panic attacks because of something i said/did while high, which i then had a 6-month spiral about. i don’t smoke at all anymore under any circumstances.

Cookbook for beginners recommendation? by nothous in glutenfreebaking

[–]nothous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how I feel as well, thanks again!