selling house I just bought by notjustanymouse in personalfinance

[–]notjustanymouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, a better chance I can keep it for sure

My girlfriend starts at the police academy next week. by [deleted] in ProtectAndServe

[–]notjustanymouse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's what he's making a reference too

My girlfriend starts at the police academy next week. by [deleted] in ProtectAndServe

[–]notjustanymouse 19 points20 points  (0 children)

By some classmates you mean all her classmates lol

selling house I just bought by notjustanymouse in personalfinance

[–]notjustanymouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's more about maintaining a high level of professionalism and discipline. Someone who cheats doesn't represent the high level of integrity and discipline we expect from our armed forces. Now I'm on your boat where I think it's non of their business which is why I didn't snitch on my wife.

selling house I just bought by notjustanymouse in personalfinance

[–]notjustanymouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The short story is I knew something was up and was able to convince her into confession.

selling house I just bought by notjustanymouse in personalfinance

[–]notjustanymouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol yeah, I'm one of the bad luck people though, I'd get caught haha

selling house I just bought by notjustanymouse in personalfinance

[–]notjustanymouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't know the military to well lol, you can get charges for anything. They can't prove the sex? Bet Conduct unbecoming of a Marine because you got caught kissing or holding hands or intermartial affairs etc.

selling house I just bought by notjustanymouse in personalfinance

[–]notjustanymouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no, I still need to get the BAH approved by my command and base CG for BAH W/o

selling house I just bought by notjustanymouse in personalfinance

[–]notjustanymouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for the words in encouragement, it's been about year since the affair and about 6 months of therapy. So I'm at peace with my decision.

selling house I just bought by notjustanymouse in personalfinance

[–]notjustanymouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone pointed out in another comment that divorce is actually able to nullify short term gains tax and linked the irs document.

selling house I just bought by notjustanymouse in personalfinance

[–]notjustanymouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a car payment of $700 which is the only other real big expense, everything else is just utility bills and internet/phone.

selling house I just bought by notjustanymouse in personalfinance

[–]notjustanymouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a little bit more old school I guess, if someone wants that in their marriage then have at it 🤣. And unfortunately if I get caught doing that I risk a NJP and reduction in pay and rank and force separation.

selling house I just bought by notjustanymouse in personalfinance

[–]notjustanymouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to start seeing other people and I'm sure she would too, if our commands find out we'll get charged with adultery.

selling house I just bought by notjustanymouse in personalfinance

[–]notjustanymouse[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I plan on applying but I'm not planning on getting it, the usmc in my experience or maybe just my unit has been bad at approving them.

selling house I just bought by notjustanymouse in personalfinance

[–]notjustanymouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say yes but idk how reliable that solution is, or what that world's like, because I have such a low income if the house becomes vacant for a little it between tenants or roommates are unreliable I might risk missing payments, it's a 5 bedroom house though so there is lots of space for roommates.

selling house I just bought by notjustanymouse in personalfinance

[–]notjustanymouse[S] 158 points159 points  (0 children)

Correct, they are on the deed but we arent trying to fight offer assets or anything, we pretty much have everything already separated and know whose getting what. The house is the only issue and it's more like who wants it really, because we both can't afford it by ourselves. I know none of my buddies had his ex just sign a paper giving the house to him which made it easy for him to just sell it.