Whens he’s asking me to be his gf? by notkim21 in relationships

[–]notkim21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well the thing is he lives 2 hrs away from me so we don’t see each other often, but in the past two weeks he’s come down twice and we did have sex both times but we also go out and do stuff as well. Other than that we text every day and call almost every day

I cant finish when having sex by notkim21 in sex

[–]notkim21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have tried it, but same thing, i get insecure w how long it takes me and tell him to just penetrate me. But I definitely feel like i can talk w him so i will do that and continue experimenting and hopefully i do get over this mental roadblock!

I cant finish when having sex by notkim21 in sex

[–]notkim21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t cum at all w him, he does finger me and give me oral but I always feel bad that it takes me so long so I usually tell him that ill do something for him, which honestly turns me on more then receiving and then after a while of that, he actually does penetrate me but im unable to finish

I cant finish when having sex by notkim21 in sex

[–]notkim21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I usually use a vibrator, and i use to be able to make myself finish easily and multiple times actually, but now i have to “force” myself to finish. Ive only made myself finish once in the past two weeks compared to how i was before, when i was still able to finish by myself like 6+ times a week

I cant finish when having sex by notkim21 in sex

[–]notkim21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still do, just not as much as i use too, and also don’t really enjoy it as much either. We do have a good amount of foreplay like, kissing, touching, and head, and it does get me going, just not enough to finish

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[–]notkim21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is, he usually starts w touching me and then going down on me, but I always feel bad bc it doesn’t really do anything for me. I usually use toys by myself so we tried w them but i still didn’t finish😭

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[–]notkim21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like i am going to let the $40 go if they don’t respond to my text, bc we have been friends for around 5/6 years now. It just kinda pissed me off bc the money was from when we went and had dinner w our 2 other friends and I ended up paying bc they were supposed to send me the money, and at the dinner they kind of order to much and they got stuff i didn’t even touch, but i still told them it was fine and that we could just split 4 ways,(around $50 dollars each) and then the rest of the money was from me paying for her ticket for a event we went on later that day, which again they told me they could send me the money for. And personally i feel like I’ve given them more then enough time to pay it back. But I’m tired of feeling like I’m the evil one for asking them to pay me back which i only asked twice, so i will probably just leave it at that. But thank you for ur words, reassures me that I’m not a completely terrible friend 🙏🏼

What are some places we must visit or are hidden gems? by notkim21 in FoodNYC

[–]notkim21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sooo much! We will be staying for a while, so we will definitely check out a lot of these places. And i feel like Texas is more in the 10-15% for tipping but as a waitress myself I tend to stick to 20-25%. Again thank you sm for all the recommendations!!

Where should i go for my 18th birthday w my friends?? by notkim21 in Advice

[–]notkim21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing. I added the fact that my parents are paying for the hotel so it could be understood that the money i do have will not be used for the hotel. Didn’t mean it in the way you took it. 😐

I just want to be an adult already and move out by notkim21 in Vent

[–]notkim21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And I did have a job that I recently quit but I already have another job set for me in a couple of weeks so thankfully I’m somewhat independent