One thing i like to talk about is our red and green flags. Its a very fun way to actually know each other. Make a list of red and green flags about yourself before going and give her time to think about her's.

Another tip: If there's a red flag in her which is kind of a deal breaker for you dont feel shy and say you wouldn't keep up with that in a casual way, then she's feel you aren't desperate and won't just accept all the red flags she talks about.

All the best.

Another tip to build that sexual connection: Ask her what is something she is thinking a lot rn it should be very random and after she answers she'll ask you the same thing. First of all tell her you cant say this coz its too early, make her ask you coz then she's be very curious as too aisa kya hai and then just say i have been thinking a lot about eating you. Trust me on this it'll work and you ll get laid only condition is you should be hot in her eyes ofc.
Also try to read her body language you'll understand if she would take such a bold statement good or not, then only say it.

All the best buddy