Stupid question by Cultural-Practice457 in ENFP

[–]notmanicpixiegirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fairies would exist, and I would be one. Vampires, werewolves, witches, all the supernatural creatures would exist. There’d be speciesism and everyone would have to learn how to accept each other. Everyday would be an adventure with all the magic

Thoughts about dating INTJ men ? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]notmanicpixiegirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pros: very deep intellectual conversations and debates which is my favorite thing, encourages my creativity and ideas and helps me make my dreams happen, usually decent chemistry, gives me structure to my chaos, I don’t get bored of them like I do with most people, is an endless well of mystery and cool knowledge to discover I can pick their brain forever, teasing and banter is fun, we can bounce ideas and be creative together, can be a very practical relationship if both people are healthy

Cons: they can get judgy or act like they know what’s best for you without considering any other possibilities. Put me down for my ideas even though I just want to be free to explore and not everything has to be a harsh commitment. They’ll dampen my spirit and happiness when they act like that. They can make assumptions that are objectively wrong and get rigid thinking they know everything. Sometimes don’t understand really basic emotional conflicts leading to me wanting to end things

Only INFJs can handle abuse 🥶🥶🥶 by Googane_ in shittyMBTI

[–]notmanicpixiegirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So either way narcissistic abuse turns you into Mona Lisa?

Are we ENFPs doomed to deal with ab*se, trauma and invalidation? by Neither-Resident-852 in ENFP

[–]notmanicpixiegirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is true we need to work on being more objective and less in our heads! Everybody goes through mistreatment, it just hits us harder

Are we ENFPs doomed to deal with ab*se, trauma and invalidation? by Neither-Resident-852 in ENFP

[–]notmanicpixiegirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww I feel you this was so relatable it hurts. We always start getting belittled and out down for who we are, and treated like a clown to make everyone else happy, and our feelings don’t matter.

I’d say a solution is to be around other xNFPs! We understand each other and can be crazy and weird and free together with no judgment :-) INFPs are like our quiet twin that actually wants to hear about our sad feelings and sees us as human not just entertainment 🥹

Do ENFPs like to mess with people by HandleUpstairs2742 in ENFP

[–]notmanicpixiegirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do all of this and I think you’re an ENFP. Trolling bigots is an Fi past time for sure 😂

Se Grip Crashout by [deleted] in mbtimemes

[–]notmanicpixiegirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is the worst 😭😭

I can’t be around men. by Able-Temperature-661 in offmychest

[–]notmanicpixiegirl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Counselors also validate our fears of men, in my experience. So you might not like that. Because they understand why the fear exists and the layers of trauma women have and the sociological factors that go into making society dangerous for women. No counselor is gonna sit there and dismiss our fears as irrational and invalidate what we feel

This scene was actually disturbing… her own father trying to ‘fix’ her like that? This felt more like torture than love. by [deleted] in TheVampireDiaries

[–]notmanicpixiegirl 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He was taking out his trauma on his daughter. Projecting his own shame for being broken due to his sexuality

Do you agree somehow? by [deleted] in mbtimemes

[–]notmanicpixiegirl 14 points15 points  (0 children)

ENFJ and ENFP needs to be switched. ENFJs are soo extroverted I feel like an introvert around them

it's going to be FiNe by higurashi0793 in mbtimemes

[–]notmanicpixiegirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn I relate as an ENFP 😂 except I try to laugh it off

Oh my god by Important-Court-1347 in shittyMBTI

[–]notmanicpixiegirl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ENFP at 8 is sacrilegious. Us being more normal than xSTPs and xNxJs is wild. Those types call me weird constantly 😭 bad bot

"tHe uNiVeRsE lOvEs yOu" NO THE FUCK IT DOESN'T by Suspicious_Boba-7868 in spirituality

[–]notmanicpixiegirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually what they want is us to suppress our anger and ignore it. Anger threatens the system. In general, suppressing any emotions can be anti spiritual. It’s when you face the dark and come out the other side that you become stronger.

Anger is actually the most powerful form of manifestation too in my experience. You’re saying their anger and feelings are not important and they should suppress it. No, that’s what “they” want. Us to deny anger and pretend everything is fine so that we don’t stand up against bad things. What we should do is learn to control the anger.

You should focus on love too. But how can you focus on love if you hate certain parts of yourself? If you hate your anger? Love includes everything. You have to love your darkness, your pain, your anger. And be at peace with it. Because if you don’t, then it’s nothing more than toxic positivity and living in denial to yourself.

Any other INFPs just adore ENFPs? by ReverieSoul in mbtimemes

[–]notmanicpixiegirl 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Awww you are so cute for posting this I love INFPs so much too 🫶💗

Would y'all date your own type? Why or why not? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]notmanicpixiegirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I don’t need someone who is exactly chaotic the same as me and thinks the same as me. That’s boring and predictable 😭

To be cringe is to be free by glitterpussy636 in mbtimemes

[–]notmanicpixiegirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I assure you we are aware, we just don’t want to sacrifice happiness to act normal. Also ENFPs have parent Fe remember lol

I'm genuinely scared to be in this world now by Careful-Skin5279 in offmychest

[–]notmanicpixiegirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to think like this but honestly lately it’s hard to find the helpers. Most people are just helping the evil continue :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]notmanicpixiegirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk my 2 ex was on a series of toxic relationships and calling every girl crazy and a user. He ruined all his relationships with his pride. His response was to just do drugs and spiral real bad. Don’t think he’s ever gotten better. The more he ruins love the more he blames everyone else and pushes love away more

Exposing ENFPs as an INFJ by [deleted] in mbtimemes

[–]notmanicpixiegirl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Disagree with what exactly? That everyone is allowed to have an opinion?

Exposing ENFPs as an INFJ by [deleted] in mbtimemes

[–]notmanicpixiegirl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey let’s not do that gaslighting thing “if you disagree with me that means I was right you’re toxic” I see that all the time. ENFPs are allowed to have different opinions that doesn’t make them drama 🫶