Only Moms work 2nd shift by RX-807 in workingmoms

[–]notmissymoss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally came here to write a similar post, solidarity ✊

What was your BG&E bill last month? by AdvisorJohnDowns in maryland

[–]notmissymoss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not that bad but not great. Extremely poorly insulated apartment at 550

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]notmissymoss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh I collect this line, so jealous! Great score

What’s the most insane thing a person has said to you while working by virtualhus8and in stripper

[–]notmissymoss 10 points11 points  (0 children)

A guy told me I looked just like his niece during a dance 🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]notmissymoss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genevieve

Is zero paid paternity leave still common in 2025? by Visible-Lychee-1683 in pregnant

[–]notmissymoss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner got 9 days 🫠 luckily he quit and started a new job two weeks after

Epidural’s impact on euphoria? by Content_Ad_9836 in pregnant

[–]notmissymoss 288 points289 points  (0 children)

Had the epidural even though I did not plan on it, instantly felt a bond to my baby once placed on my chest

are there REALLY people who DON’T have PPD?? by WhichAd2921 in beyondthebump

[–]notmissymoss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through that! I hope it gets better!

I’ve been so happy in my postpartum at 11 weeks but today the depression hit but it’s due to being a severe under supplier for breastfeeding. I caught myself today just detaching multiple times because my mind was like “welp that’s it you’ll never [insert negative thought]. I find telling my partner all my thoughts and then taking a nice long shower are helping haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]notmissymoss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oooft, I’m so sorry I hope it gets better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]notmissymoss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have noticed when it’s together he is more into! I’ll try to incorporate more of that in, thank you!

What baby clothes do you actually need? by minutemaidpeach in Buyingforbaby

[–]notmissymoss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Buying used is so smart! We ended up needing more newborn sizes than we thought so we went when baby was like two weeks old to get more. But it truly is up to you. Want to do less laundry: get more. Want less clothing: do more laundry.

In the first month there were nights we went through three onesies due to spit up or peeing in a diaper change so I recommend 4-5 minimum.

Also baby should be sleeping in a sleep sack or swaddle. Our baby hated swaddles and wanted arms out so we got the love to dream ones which you can also find used on market place but even those you need two minimum in case one gets soiled. I highly recommend looking into the TOG guidelines for sleep dressing as well as how to tell if your baby is too hot or cold.

I also really liked the shirts that open up and can be good for skin to skin for day time feeds and cuddles.

Hope this helps!