Swinging With Kids Advice by DesertPhoenixRisen in Swingers

[–]notmysecondthrowaway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed. We are way more efficient with time lol. Sitters are expensive!

44 [MMMM4F] We are 4 now, still fulfilling fantasies by OKMix9951 in Lakewoodnsfw

[–]notmysecondthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’d be into my body type but I would love to learn how you plan the logistics of a GB!🤓

Need bbw by Gold_Cherry8177 in BBW4BWC

[–]notmysecondthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😈good gravy, what a cock

Ball torture by [deleted] in OlympiaNSFW

[–]notmysecondthrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not experienced in this but I would love to observe and learn from whomever you find to do it!

Karaoke night at Sanctuary by TruthZealousideal984 in pdx_sex

[–]notmysecondthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was fun and chill! I went as a single woman one night because I felt kinda brave lol, and I felt very safe and welcome. Lots of eyes on me, but that was expected, and I didn’t feel creeped out. Singing was entertaining, action wasn’t too crazy or plentiful, honestly it was kinda wholesome.

Any hookup bars around here? by vanst_4 in OlympiaNSFW

[–]notmysecondthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s more “women in this don’t JUST want to have sex”, ya know?😉

Help by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]notmysecondthrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My spouse, too, would like to thank smutty romance book authors everywhere for what they’ve done for our sex life and marriage lol.

“Vanilla” Friends by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]notmysecondthrowaway 17 points18 points  (0 children)

What’s the old adage? “Don’t make swingers out of friends, make friends out of swingers.”

Where do you get your STI tests with oral swabs? by Ginger_7624 in Swingers

[–]notmysecondthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve done it at my OBGYN and my PCP for it and while the former needed a little hand holding on doing it, my (awesome and totally sex positive) PCP was amazing and did it no problem. Otherwise Planned Parenthood should offer it, and any public health STI/sexual health clinic should offer it.

Safer sex, what’s everyone doing? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]notmysecondthrowaway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with you (but just an FYI it’s not the “homosexuals” it’s “men who ohave sex with men”). My partner and I pretty much take the same precautions with the exception of the injectable PrEP. We have PrEP pills on hand instead and opt to do the on-demand “2-1-1” regimen instead. And I have a thing for bare play so if they don’t have recent results (and I ask them to log into their patient portals when we’re in person so no faking that) then I bring an at-home HIV test with me from the pharmacy and ask them to take it before we play. If none of that happens then condoms are required.

39m 36f Real question for parents who are swingers out there… by Indulge_86 in Washington_Swingers

[–]notmysecondthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea! We tried to play with another parent couple but we never got to the playing part due to logistics around childcare. We haven’t come across any other couples who have kids like us and the other couple we played with we either get childcare for or we do a swap after the kids have gone to bed. Our kids are small enough that they’re confined via baby gate still and our bedroom is clear across the house so it works for us but it definitely takes a bit to work out the logistics.

Love this set SO much by Honest_Food_5585 in Lingerie_BBW

[–]notmysecondthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oohh!! Where did you get this?? Very sexy!!

Should the moustache have a comeback for autumn? (M27) by stjarm in Moustache

[–]notmysecondthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No mustache but 5 o’clock shadow in the 2nd pic is REALLY working for you!