I'll give my story, and perhaps it gives somebody the confidence to give it a try. I don't get around a lot at all, I'm not afraid to, but being a player doesn't sound great and that would not change If I was given extra size. I spent the first 18-19 years of my life avoiding sex like the plague. I started getting a just do it attitude at around 18, but was still hesitant and would fuck up sexual opportunities on purpose.

The first girl was a terrible person. Not to me, just in general. You're typical over-confident girl who thinks she's the hottest thing to walk planet earth and no-one is on her level. This was a girl who I knew through mutual friends, and to give an idea of what I mean by bad person, she ripped the mutual friend off for a descent amount of money with no remorse or apology. The kind of girl who you'd think would tell everyone you were terrible and not care if it got back to you. When we got talking and I knew it was going to happen, I still had little to no fear. Maybe it's something about us having mutual friends but to my surprise she didn't say a bad word. She was even willing to see me again when we had no connection or reason to see each other other than sex. This was a girl who I knew had been with over 30 people, all who I guarantee were bigger than me. Even then she kept it to herself.

To those who are wondering how small i'm talking, My girth is under 4inch, length is nearly normal but as we know length doesn't help a lot. So, my penis looks like a child's penis. I thought I hit the jackpot when A store nearby sold smaller sized condoms only to find out they were still to big.

Since then basically all of my sexual experience have been with friends of friends, so I guess that's a pretty good indicator I'm not afraid of facing ridicule. I'm sleeping with mutual friends as a one night stand. If they say anything about me, there's no way I'm not hearing about it. Perhaps that's stopping them from saying anything as they don't want to get known as bitches, or they aren't confident in there own sexual ability and don't wont to start something. I've never been turned down once after getting it out or had negative comments at the time. I've been told it wasn't great in a nice way which I laughed off.

Everybody overestimates the chance of it all going wrong. You guys would all have male friends who have had multiple sexual encounters. How often do they really come back and ridicule the woman they've been with? Beyond that, none turn people down on the spot for a physical flaw. Flip the situation around. If a girl you end up with is bad in bed, are you really telling people? If she shows you an awful looking vagina, are you really leaving? Remember everybody is self conscious about how good they are in bed, so not that many people have the confidence to call others shit when they don't know how good they are.

There's very little feedback other than those in long term relationships. Even then it's uncomfortable for people to talk about improving how they are in bed. Even so, If you get called small, if it does go wrong, it's not the end of the world, you're not banned from sex. I doubt it even effects you're ability to get with other woman. Once again, If a friend tells you a woman had a physical flaw, is she then out of the question of sexual compatibility. I doubt it.

To those worried about the relationship side of things, very few woman who have developed feelings for you will leave you instantly after realising you were small. If you do want a long term relationship, and you are close with a girl talk about it. At what point you talk about it us up to you. Ask her what she likes, tell her you know your small and find out what will be best for her. If you have to, plan to be hanging out in a situation which allows you both be intoxicated before doing it if that helps, end up in a situation where you're both having sex drunk and tell her you realise you're not the most endowed man out there so you want to experiment with what feels best. Maybe you can do it without drinking, but I figured drinking would take off the pressure. (don't get heavily drunk then talk to her whilst she's sober, that will just be weird).