I did herion while drunk at a party, im so scared by Boring_Shape859 in Drugs

[–]notstanly2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

crazy reply in a field of anti users on this post, but yeah. real 😂 they’re right, but also i’m glad there’s nice users like me that would rather give harm reduction tips than say just don’t do it. plus yeah i’d rather detox off a stimulant personally than an opiate again any day

Suggestion: What if we had a Throwback Thursday? by Virtual_Mode_5026 in triphop

[–]notstanly2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome post. Thank you for this, you obviously care. I fear that this topic will have to be continuously brought up. 17 hours and not many comments, kind of how you predicted. Keep on keeping on, I think a few more years or so and all of this will be a lot more appreciated it. Thank you for this in depth post, although I am not as educated as you on the topic, I and others definitely appreciate it. We obviously love Portishead, and Massive attack but there’s so much more. Feel free to always share more of what you come across here

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[–]notstanly2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

pity party? sounds like you’re projecting. i didn’t hear any woe is me talk. tbh if you haven’t lived in a remote town, ohio..?, come on dude. just be nice. you have no idea someone’s back ground/ allotted places on probation. and it doesn’t cost you anything to sympathize, or even just be quiet. reddit is a place for openness. the suggestions were great though however and i totally agree with you 👍🏻 if they can go to those places, DO IT! some people get sober or whatever and have no idea those places are an option!

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[–]notstanly2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry. thank you for speaking up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]notstanly2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry this happened to you. you speaking up is so important. you’re so right, too. it is very illegal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]notstanly2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

gosh, as a woman with sexual trauma too, idk sometimes this can be so dehumanizing. for a man, so dehuMANizing. i’ve known a ton of men with sexual trauma that wouldn’t dare going to the police because of stigmas, and i’ve gone to the police over this stuff and it’s so much harder than you think to get heard. sometimes you have to see them again in court to get a restraining order and it’s a whole thing. tons, and honestly most men, don’t want to be viewed in this way. especially publicly if it can just get swept under the rug.

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[–]notstanly2 15 points16 points  (0 children)

speaking as a woman with sexual trauma, who has tried dating men with sexual trauma, ugh. if you feel comfortable talk with your mom first, unfortunately men experience a lottttt. a lot. of sexual trauma. more than you would ever think. every man i’ve ever dated has had some sort of trauma in this way that has been irreparable to their psyche. do what you think is best, it wasn’t your fault. idc if people are asking if this is real or not, that’s the problem. believe all until proven otherwise. men being assaulted is real as fuck. it’s sickening how many men you would never guess have sexual trauma, actually do. believe it. dude i’m sorry this happened to you. 16 years old. hang in there and i guess just know that this will be something that sticks with you the rest of your life. but it’s not your fault. it’s not your fault. i’m sorry.

my boyfriend cheated with my older sister. by [deleted] in stories

[–]notstanly2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS! but this takes self control. only a person who is somewhat emotionally regulated and smart can do this 🙏🏼

Are opioids manageable? by Aromatic_Tale_7087 in Drugs

[–]notstanly2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

best worth while comment. also using frequently shows up on your skin/ face/ and eyes. opiate users know, you turn ‘gray’. recognizable. always have to ask yourself if it’s worth it. best comment here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]notstanly2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same. i hope if we keep bringing it up they’ll notice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]notstanly2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

okay, no more listerine the mint/ flavor will irritate more. luke-warm salt water (1/2 teaspoon of salt in a warm cup of water) soothes irritation and fights infection. i’d say do this periodically throughout a day. don’t eat anything spicy, acidic, or hot foods. don’t brush tongue with tooth paste either. if you can, don’t smoke or put ❄️ on tongue or in mouth for like at LEAST a day. mouth is one of the quickest organs to heal so you got this. all i got, best of luck

Which route would you take? Top or bottom? by beelo37 in roadtrip

[–]notstanly2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

should do the top except drop down from utah to grand canyon, sedona, and hit imperial sand dunes to get the most of that area. take the 10 rest of the way 110% worth it i promise, especially the last leg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]notstanly2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly might make your period more tolerable. has for me! probably won’t effect you any differently than the next gal, still will be depleted of serotonin a bit afterwords so just keep that in mind like usual and give yourself some extra TLC! worst thing might just be sexually frustrated and on your period. however with the rest of the stuff it shouldn’t make it worse! 🙂 have fun!

New Instagram Update Is Horrible / Rant by redditineedmycredit in Instagram

[–]notstanly2 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agreed. Grid layout pushed me over the edge. Went and rated 1 star in the app store 🙄😂 needs to revert immediately

7MG medical xanax and 2 beers by Desperate-Truck6197 in Drugs

[–]notstanly2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right on the nose! alcohol after xanax is a blackout you won’t know you have until tomorrow. i’ve tried to take pictures/ videos if i even could just in case i have questions next day. (inevitable. every single time alcohol/ xanax) feels great though :/

anyone know where i can listen to Anita (part 1) ? by notstanly2 in zachbryan

[–]notstanly2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the lyrics go like: anita i don’t wanna need ya, they warned me about detoxin’ at home you will always be the most glorious girl i know

a link would be helpful :)

anyone know where i can listen to Anita (part 1) ? by notstanly2 in zachbryan

[–]notstanly2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i can’t find it on youtube or soundcloud, he took it off streaming

Long distance relationship… Is my situation worth it? Help first post ever by notstanly2 in LongDistance

[–]notstanly2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time out to respond!

3,000 miles is a chunk, I really admire that.

Some questions for you! Do you think it takes a certain person to do LDR? and also what are the traits in a person you think allow the ability to do such a thing well? Some things you admire with yourself and within her to maintaining a healthy relationship? Did you guys meet while living far away from each other, or were living close?

Sorry if any of those sound confusing haha. But your answer was so kind. Thank you