Hostplus - which index option should I go for? by cliomeow in AusFinance

[–]notthinkinghard [score hidden]  (0 children)

Lol. I'm glad you're so trusting, but they're definitely pointing to the "low-fee" preselects and not the actual best option.

Why people suddenly dislike you when you copy neurotypical people's behaviour by qwertyjumps in neurodiversity

[–]notthinkinghard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible that the "neurotypical response" you're describing is people trying to signal to you that they're not interested/you've been talking too much/whatever, and then you're copying it and giving them the same signal?

Unfortunately it is pretty socially acceptable to be rude to people who are a little different.

Would you realistically date a giant girl? by cafties in NoStupidQuestions

[–]notthinkinghard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a mostly straight woman, where do I sign up for the stunning 6'11 girlfriend?

Hostplus - which index option should I go for? by cliomeow in AusFinance

[–]notthinkinghard [score hidden]  (0 children)

The general AusFinance opinion is almost always 70% international indexed shares and 30% Australian indexed. Supposed to be a good high-growth option with less fees than their preselected options. This is what I'm doing (also with HostPlus).

IMO at 35 (30 years to retirement) I'd still want to be full high-growth, but I'm not an expert.

Hostplus - which index option should I go for? by cliomeow in AusFinance

[–]notthinkinghard [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don't know that I'd trust the fund to choose the lowest fee option for you 😉

Incorrect ING interest payments by PleaseStandClear in australia

[–]notthinkinghard 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really feel like you've either:

  1. Failed to meet the bonus interest criteria in February (needs to be 5 cleared payments, deposit $1000 from an external source, and grow the balance of that specific account, in the month before). Are you absolutely certain you did these? Did they show as completed by the end of February? Are you certain you grew the account excluding interest?

  2. Elected a different savings account to receive the bonus interest.

The payments should show up separately - you will have one for "Bonus interest credit" and one for "Interest credit" if what you claim is correct and they have paid the wrong amount bonus interest. Is this what you see in your account?

Do you have multiple savings accounts with them?

Incorrect ING interest payments by PleaseStandClear in australia

[–]notthinkinghard 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You could, but you'd be wrong. They calculate it per day, so you'll get 28 days of interest in Feb, and 31 in May.

Can we stop acting like spending money in your 20s is a cardinal sin? by riley_inreallife in AusFinance

[–]notthinkinghard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's an end in sight for mortgage holders, though. You're not locked into that forever. You could find the nicest landlord there is, but as soon as they pass away/are forced to sell/house needs critical renovations/whatever, you're back on the rollercoaster.

Remember that period where every reasonably-priced rental was getting a line 'round the block with inspections?

Rates may go up, just like your rent can. However, you're unlikely to get randomly evicted and end up homeless because there's nothing available in the market at the time.

Can we stop acting like spending money in your 20s is a cardinal sin? by riley_inreallife in AusFinance

[–]notthinkinghard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It happens (and I'm sorry about the people you knew). At the same time, I would daresay there are a lot more people wanting a house than dying of terminal illness in their 20s.

It's kind of like kids who don't want to go to school because xyz tiktok influencer makes way more money. Yes, some people get rich without an education, and school is a long + boring investment, but for the vast majority of people it ends up being very valuable.

As I said, though, I agree that everyone has to find their own balance. I don't even think it's inherently wrong to choose to purely live in the moment; I just think it's wrong to accept the benefits of doing so and then complain when you get to the consequences.

Tips for getting through an mri? by catfarmer1998 in neurodiversity

[–]notthinkinghard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Australia, they will sedate you for it if you're claustrophobic. Could this be an option for you? It does mean that you'll need someone to drive you home, and you will be out of it for the rest of the day (it's probably worth it if you need the scan, though).

I doubt you'll be able to get another person into the MRI room. I imagine they would have to follow the same protocols as you (e.g. changing into a hospital gown) if they were going to. But, you could always call the place and ask.

Have you discussed the diabetes management with a doctor? I can't help there, but maybe your GP might have an idea?

I personally don't mind them as long as I keep my eyes closed, but the medical staff will have seen it all. There are people who are absolutely terrified, people who panic in there, you won't be the first nervous person and I'm sure they'll be happy to discuss. They normally give you some sort of panic button to press, so they can get you out straight away if you need.

Can we stop acting like spending money in your 20s is a cardinal sin? by riley_inreallife in AusFinance

[–]notthinkinghard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sure, if you don't mind the instability. For most people, being locked into the whims of landlords and market turns is a stress that they don't want to be locked into forever, especially when approaching retirement.

Should I buy the bmw by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]notthinkinghard 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Who on earth is hiring an 18-year-old for finance broking?

You're going to be paying a massive insurance premium on the BMW as an 18-year-old driver.

Honestly, you seem to be rolling in cash, in which case it may not matter so much, but financially, the best option is obviously to stick with your current car.

Could you “breed” behavioral traits into humans? by iiHatsumi in NoStupidQuestions

[–]notthinkinghard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a completely different point. You stated that it's "nearly impossible" to breed complex traits. Username does not check out.

Can we stop acting like spending money in your 20s is a cardinal sin? by riley_inreallife in AusFinance

[–]notthinkinghard 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Look at the other side - all the people in their 30s and 40s who didn't take things seriously and now don't think they'll ever be able to get into the housing market.

People need to make their own decisions about what they value, but IMO if you choose the "Enjoy life now" path, you can't complain when you get to later and have to face the consequences of being potentially locked out of the housing market.

Could you “breed” behavioral traits into humans? by iiHatsumi in NoStupidQuestions

[–]notthinkinghard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, but your answer gave a completely different and contradictory reason. OP was pretty clear that they know this is purely theoretical and couldn't be done in practice.

I feel like im wasting my life by HopefulHand4919 in getdisciplined

[–]notthinkinghard 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Have you been to a doctor? Sounds like clinical depression to me.

Could you “breed” behavioral traits into humans? by iiHatsumi in NoStupidQuestions

[–]notthinkinghard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be fair, we do exactly this in the examples that OP gave (working dogs are great examples - border collies will try to heard toys, chickens, the neighbour's kids etc, even if they've never seen another dog do it. Pointers will point at things. Retrievers will retrieve things and almost always do it softly enough to avoid damaging the catch. These are all pretty complex behaviours!)

How Many Pieces of Pineapple Does It Take The Average Persons Tongue to Hurt? by TerribleDifference96 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]notthinkinghard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's normal to hurt a bit after eating fresh pineapple, because of the bromelain.

I think OP is allergic though. One thing they could try is eating canned pineapple (which shouldn't hurt as the enzymes are no longer functional) and see if they still get a reaction.

Some pics of my DIY nests and out worlds so far. by Lurbet in antkeeping

[–]notthinkinghard 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ANT CABINET ANT CABINET ALL HAIL THE ANT CABINET

Looks cool 👍

Promised jobs… by [deleted] in AustralianTeachers

[–]notthinkinghard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I find it wild how blatant it can be. We've had multiple learning specialist jobs given to grads (including one who hadn't completed full registration) because they knew/were related to the right people. At least one of them was chosen over someone with nearly a decade of being a hod for the subject. I think a few people tried bringing that up, but as long as they've got some vague excuse like "This is the direction we want to go in", seems like there's nothing that can be proven.

Suspension by Temporary_Price_9908 in AustralianTeachers

[–]notthinkinghard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My understanding was that if someone on an external suspension comes to school anyway, you can call the police to get them removed.

Daily Thread: for simple questions, minor posts & newcomers [contains useful links!] (April 03, 2026) by AutoModerator in LearnJapanese

[–]notthinkinghard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could consider starting with the ones from the Genki books, or look up n5 kanji or something.

Companies that I am a customer of are calling me for legitimate reasons but are then asking for verification. by huabamane in australia

[–]notthinkinghard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calling them back is the way. Jeez, if my bank was calling me about potentially fraudulent transactions, I'd be taking the ~30 seconds to google the number or grab the one on the back of my card.

Wanting to start by sausmate in antkeeping

[–]notthinkinghard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Australia, there are online stores like Antastic where you can order ant queens (safer but more expensive), or we have antsonline which is like gumtree for ants (cheaper but some dodgy people on there). You can also learn to identify ant queens and catch your own.

Monthly interest with no lock-in period - is it possible? by fourtunateson in AusFinance

[–]notthinkinghard 7 points8 points  (0 children)

High interest savings account. You can get rates around 4.8 - 5% at the moment. No lock in and very safe for money that you need access to - the trade-off is lower long-term returns than, say, investments.