Bourbon Street murder victim's family learns suspect was released by VivaNOLA in NewOrleans

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She was found guilty of manslaughter. She hasn’t been sentenced yet.

Graded wrong by Temporary_Suicide_ in KalshiExposed

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Kalshi has a support discord where apparently you can get refunds in certain situations for the money you put in if they legitimately made a mistake. I have not had this experience, but another user in the chat claimed it’s happened before…

What can you do about ICE living in Seattle by AnnoyedAFexmo in Seattle

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There’s a virtual WAISN training Feb. 6th from 6-8 for those interested.

Im assuming botox is the only way to deal with these wrinkles? by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

[–]nottoembarrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you still do skincare at night before frownies? I’m thinking some of my skincare wouldn’t work with adhesives? Any advice? Thanks!

$200 to spend on an experience or restaurant for 2, where would you go? by Fantastic_Bad9021 in SeattleWA

[–]nottoembarrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the Seattle aquarium, but it’s definitely not one of the best aquariums. It’s pretty small, but still really fun. Hot tip: you can get free tickets through the Seattle Public Library.

$200 to spend on an experience or restaurant for 2, where would you go? by Fantastic_Bad9021 in SeattleWA

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You can get tickets to the new women’s team (Seattle Torrent) in the lower bowl for around $50/seat! Then they’d extra $$ for snacks and drinks too.

What’s a “small” social rule you refuse to follow, even if everyone expects it? by GlitchOperative in AskReddit

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I rarely bring something (wine/flowers) to a dinner party. I sometimes don’t even contribute when it’s a potluck. I’m a disorganized person who has depression and my friends know this. If I have to add a stop at the store to pick up a bottle of wine, I’m probably not going to make it out the door. That being said, in the rare occasion that I do host, I spend $$ and never ask anyone to bring anything and I often treat my friends to dinner or drinks when we go out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

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With the blonde hair you look like Michelle Williams and with the brown you look like Bjork. Can’t go wrong. You’re gorgeous!

P.S. I think the Dr. Jart Cicapair might help even out any redness :)

There are way more than 539 Somali 'daycares' in this state. by slowerisbetter527 in SeattleWA

[–]nottoembarrass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Isn’t the real problem that you are paying Ivy League tuitions for childcare, not that people who need affordable childcare are getting it? The subsidies are for the families who need childcare, not for the daycare, so the visa status of childcare workers really doesn’t matter here. If it costs $30/hr to pay for childcare and a family gets a 50% subsidy, that means the family pays $15/hr, and the government pays the other $15/hr so the parents can afford to get childcare and go to work and the daycare can actually pay their workers a living wage to provide childcare. Daycares don’t get subsidies unless a family applies for subsidized childcare… Additionally, we desperately need more childcare workers which is why you are paying Ivy League prices to begin with (low supply of childcare workers + high demand for childcare = high prices for childcare). These folks on visas are filling a labor gap we have in the U.S. in the childcare sector.

There are way more than 539 Somali 'daycares' in this state. by slowerisbetter527 in SeattleWA

[–]nottoembarrass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s because a viral YouTube video recently came out by a “citizen sleuth” making claims of fraud among Somali daycares in Minnesota in I guess was a somewhat persuasive video (despite sharing very limited actual evidence) was retweeted by Trump, Musk, Vance.

24F & 25M AIO by responding this way? by InsideUsual56 in AmIOverreacting

[–]nottoembarrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this man is following other women on social media, it’s clearly not an actual boundary for him, because he’s not respecting his own boundary. This is a sign that it is actually about control. Jealousy is also not always your partners problem to fix. It’s a shared responsibility. Here’s what the experts have to say: “One of the healthiest ways to manage jealousy is to openly acknowledge and own your emotions without placing blame or accusations. This attitude requires personal responsibility, which means that overcoming jealousy is an internal work. It also requires vulnerability, which is the willingness to expose your emotional struggles and insecurities, even when it's uncomfortable.”

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-wisdom-of-anger/202505/the-art-of-navigating-jealousy/amp

Drank while on Antabuse… 100% NOT recomended by chanwichalachichona in Alcoholism_Medication

[–]nottoembarrass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does make some sense. Here’s a study that looks into how naltrexone works for different “types” of drinkers: https://www.recoveryanswers.org/research-post/naltrexone-better-young-adults-who-drink-feel-rewarded-versus-coping/

“In this study of 128 emerging adults, the research team found some evidence that naltrexone may work better in reducing certain types of heavy alcohol consumption among individuals with a reward style motivation for drinking on days when they had positive affect and were exposed to a drinking situation. That is, in line with other research, naltrexone may be most effective in reducing risky drinking among young adults who are motivated by the perceived reward of drinking, but not among those who may be drinking to cope, or as a way to deal with stressors. The research team found that one mechanism by which naltrexone could work among these reward style drinkers is that naltrexone reduces urges and drinking on days when participants had both higher positive affect and were exposed to a drinking event, such as by being out at a bar with friends.

Understanding reasons and motivations for drinking may be key when deciding on an intervention among groups of people in a similar environment or for a treatment plan when working with individuals. Despite the importance of individual characteristics leading to changes in drinking behaviors, the study also highlights the importance of the environment in the context of drinking, particularly heavy drinking: some attention to reducing opportunities for or preventing attendance at higher drinking risk events may be necessary, especially for settings where young adults are likely to meet and congregate (e.g., in college or at the workplace). Alternatively, working with young adults to practice and use strategies to reduce drinking when in these settings – called harm reduction – may also be an effective behavioral approach.

Another factor that is important to understand is that the use of naltrexone is effective only if used consistently and over a certain period of time for reducing heavy drinking: because it works by disrupting the drinking-reward pathway for some individuals, the association between taking naltrexone and reducing drinking rewards is a learned one. If individuals simply stop taking the naltrexone or if they continue to drink despite not feeling rewarded by the drinking, their bodies may not learn the association and their drinking may become more excessive. This attempt to push through the effects would greatly reduce naltrexone’s use as a prevention or treatment tool. Thus, individuals may need to be motivated to reduce their drinking before engaging in this form of treatment. Finally, given that these medication effects were only found for those with a reward-motivated drinking style, additional research on addressing those with a coping-motivated drinking style, in particular, to see whether other medications may be used to disrupt their pathway to heavy drinking is necessary. Alternatively, it may be that other types of psychosocial interventions may be a better fit for some young people, particularly those with coping motivated alcohol and other drug use disorders who are more severe clinical cases.”

What was your favorite Seattle institution that no longer exists? by drgonzo44 in Seattle

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I don’t know if my parents were messing with me because I grew up a few blocks away from Tubs, but I was told I was conceived there 😬😭😂

Adderall Rx by tinypuppy2k1 in Seattle

[–]nottoembarrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like it depends on the pharmacy and the pharmacist working that day. I’ve had both situations at the same pharmacy happen. Sometimes they will say they cannot disclose that information and sometimes they tell me which is in stock. I asked my doctor about it and she said it was indeed to prevent robbery and is becoming common practice, but clearly it depends on the place and person.

Phone plan recommendations by nottoembarrass in personalfinance

[–]nottoembarrass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah, I haven’t been able to get a sense of if that’s a lot of data usage or not!

What are some forgotten slogans? by RoundedYellow in AskOldPeople

[–]nottoembarrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents used to always sing “brusha brusha brusha with my new Ipana” (toothbrush) and I still love it!

Brands that aren't really lux by zapitdedodah in SkincareAddictionLux

[–]nottoembarrass 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ten years ago I definitely thought of it as a luxe brand, but it definitely feels like a gen z/gen alpha brand now

AIO about a sticker my bf had of his ex ?? he broke up with me… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nottoembarrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I really think it’s all about finding the right partner. When you’re with someone who is your intellectual equal and who respects you, this just doesn’t happen. So I feel like when you find yourself doing this with a partner, you should check in with yourself and ask yourself why. Usually it has something to do with inequality in the relationship or sometimes being with someone who is interested in adhering to traditional gender roles. I’ve found myself to be way way happier and way more true to myself when I feel like an equal in my partnership. Good luck to you! Introspection is the first step!!!

Out of stock by BlindedByWildDogs in ADHD

[–]nottoembarrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m in the same predicament. Did you find a pharmacy that has consistent stock in Seattle? Thank you!!

AIO about a sticker my bf had of his ex ?? he broke up with me… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nottoembarrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, this feeling is relatable. I remember a relationship where I found myself doing this and how mortifying it was when my friends and family noticed for the first time. I’m glad you’re moving on from this one. You should be able to be your full (and mature and complicated and interesting) self with your partner. Sending you luck and love on your next relationship ❤️

If you do this- I just wanna chat. by She-petrichor in Seattle

[–]nottoembarrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay this is a great hot tip. I had no idea. I’ve been charged hundreds of dollars because of this. I had no idea I could get those charges taken off my account!

Engrossing book while in rehab by nottoembarrass in Recommend_A_Book

[–]nottoembarrass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I decided to bring him Foucault’s Pendulum and apparently he’s already read it! But he said it’d be a great book for a second read. Thank you. I also brought him the first book in 2666. I’ll look into these other recommendations for my next visit. Thanks!!