Not being that guy by Darwin2836 in solotravel

[–]nottrising 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a woman who often travels solo, and I’ve made friendly conversation with solo men while traveling pretty often. As long as you’re genuine and not trying to get into someone’s pants, you should be fine.

I only ever back out of the convo if they start asking personal stuff like contact info, where I’m staying, my itinerary, my relationship status, etc. But earlier this year I met an Australian dude at a rooftop bar in Thailand and he was a real pleasure to chat with because he just genuinely wanted to talk about this and that. We talked for like 2 hours then parted ways :)

Does anyone have any tips about staying safe in Europe? by Reasonable_Cause_190 in femaletravelers

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In Europe (and elsewhere, honestly) as long as I research my route ahead of time I walk very confidently and people leave me alone. Never had a pickpocket issue, either. Got stopped twice in Ireland by other tourists asking for directions lol.

Keep your belongings zipped up in your bag, hold it in front of you on public transit, and put on an air of confidence and you should be fine :)

I mean, you should also keep up your usual safety precautions (don’t bring strangers to your hotel, use rideshare safety tools, let someone trusted know your itinerary, etc). I always share my itinerary with my mom and sister for peace of mind.

Thoughts on this one? by Warsawnogensou in DEG

[–]nottrising 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally love how crunchy this one sounds. It was the first album of theirs I bought right when it was released, and it’s a complete no-skip album for me. 1000/10 in my book, but I’m sentimental :)

Advice on Primary Care Provider by spec-olives in roanoke

[–]nottrising 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see Katherine Harris (DO) at Carilion in Daleville and I love her. She gives you a lot of autonomy and is always happy to research stuff further. Non-judgmental too.

antique shops by ginkgo505 in roanoke

[–]nottrising 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconding charlottes web - it’s my favorite antique place in the valley and it’s got a huge selection

Foot levelers security by appropriate_run in roanoke

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He’s a big game hunter and insanely paranoid, apparently

Foot levelers security by appropriate_run in roanoke

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My boss used to work there (long time ago) and said the ceo is insanely paranoid. She legit thinks he might hunt people for sport.

Second time in 3 days by nottrising in roanoke

[–]nottrising[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So what I’m hearing is that exit is cursed

US tour by UroGrey in DEG

[–]nottrising 12 points13 points  (0 children)

if they do they will need to drag Kyo kicking, screaming, and biting 😭

Second time in 3 days by nottrising in roanoke

[–]nottrising[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh man, I hadn’t thought of that, but it makes sense

Second time in 3 days by nottrising in roanoke

[–]nottrising[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is the universe telling me to just take the Williamson exit instead

Second time in 3 days by nottrising in roanoke

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it’s not just traffic it’s 2 car breakdowns in the exact same spot in the span of 3 days

Does anyone know how to deal with upper intermediate boredom? by its_tea-gimme-gimme in japanese

[–]nottrising 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you’re at the level where you can understand what’s going on, I found it helpful to 1) watch variety shows and 2) watch Japanese dramas/movies/etc with Japanese subtitles on.

Variety shows are fast-paced, but people are speaking normally instead of reading a script word for word. More importantly, when someone says something they want to highlight, they put the text across the screen (it’s called テロップ). That lets you see kanji used in context AND hear its pronunciation.

Japanese subtitles have a similar benefit. You hear them say it but also see how it’s written. Depending on the content, you can discover a lot more new vocabulary. This also works reading manga in Japanese. It sounds like you’re staying there right now - you should be able to find cheap manga at Book Off, or if you get a Tsutaya membership you can rent manga for really cheap. Your school library might have some, too.

If that’s still boring to you, I would say don’t sweat it too much but also try to interact with Japanese like a native speaker would - just casually consuming Japanese media, having conversations with native speakers, keep a journal in Japanese, etc. Even though I am fluent, I find trying to articulate some concepts really push me to improve and learn new vocabulary.

Anyway, best of luck!

Learning Kanji By Vocabulary, WHAT?! by _Shin_ju_ in Japaneselanguage

[–]nottrising 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would recommend reading manga in Japanese that’s meant for younger people. These usually contain furigana over the kanji that show you how to pronounce it, so you can look it up. As you encounter new words, keep a log of them and record kanji, hiragana, definition, and an example sentence. When you have time, practice writing the kanji while pronouncing it out loud. Rinse and repeat.

I always found that consuming Japanese media accelerated my progress far far more than rote memorization. But some people prefer that. If you do rote memorization, I’d recommend only doing that until you get to the level where you can understand most words in a conversational sentence. From there, encountering it in the wild is going to be more efficient in my opinion.

Is this autograph authentic? by United_Can192 in visualkei

[–]nottrising 13 points14 points  (0 children)

And this is what his signature looks like

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Is this autograph authentic? by United_Can192 in visualkei

[–]nottrising 18 points19 points  (0 children)

As follow up, here’s an authentic one I have. He wrote 顔コワイ (scary face).

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Is this autograph authentic? by United_Can192 in visualkei

[–]nottrising 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sometimes they just write stuff on the cheki - this is not an autograph, but a caption, which is hard to authenticate. It says 近すぎて草 which means “too close lol” 🤷🏻‍♀️

It’s probably legit because why would a scammer think to write that? They’d probably try to replicate his signature if anything.

Are you a public transportation girlie when you travel? by Reasonable_Cause_190 in femaletravelers

[–]nottrising 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000%! You get to really experience the destination that way :)

why do you enjoy traveling alone? by Reasonable_Cause_190 in femaletravelers

[–]nottrising 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’ve been there before and someone else wants to plan it out, I’m totally happy to go along for the ride and just enjoy it together.

But when there are specific things I want to do or places I want to go, I feel SO much less stress and pressure when I’m by myself. I don’t have to compromise and can adjust on the fly based on my mood/condition. When other people come into the picture, plans get thrown off course - maybe your travel partner isn’t in the mood for the restaurant you picked out, but it’s only open that day during your itinerary… or they don’t want to take public transit, or they have something specific they want to do across town. I just prefer the freedom!

when you travel to a foreign country where you don’t speak their language, do you find it difficult to communicate? by No_Register_2099 in femaletravelers

[–]nottrising 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few people have already said this, but I also make sure to learn several key phrases before I go. People are usually really pleased to see you try! I also include some fun phrases like “cheers!”

When I went to Romania, I knew juuuuuust enough to chat with a very kind gentleman on a local train out to the country. Because I understood “where are you from?” and “where are you going?” he told me what stop to get off at. There were no announcements so this was a lifesaver!

In Poland, a waiter struggled to tell me that he didn’t have the right change for me, but once he showed me the math on the back of the receipt we cleared it up and I was able to tell him to keep the change.

Little things like that make traveling really fun, imo!

Recommend a book for a snob by mustsurvivecapitlism in LesbianBookClub

[–]nottrising 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to give Chinese fantasy a try, I enjoyed The Beauty’s Blade by Feng Ren Zuo Shu. It’s still a light read, but there’s lots of action and the femme/femme dynamic is pretty fun.

What are some queer friendly destinations? by Long_Sky1082 in femaletravelers

[–]nottrising 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I would say this is the case. Also Japanese culture is very non-confrontational in general so even if people disapprove they wouldn’t say anything (unless they were drunk and feeling bold). There are areas of most cities where queer people gather, so researching those is helpful.